i am 19 years old and am having the sleeve done on February 12 and i am so nervous. i am understanding that nerves is a normal thing but is there any words of advice that you all have? ways after surgery that can help. i am so afraid that it will hurt so much and i am a sissy with pain. so i am worried that ill have the surgery and then i will be in so much pain i cant do anything after. i know this will help in the long run but i am hoping that joining this site will help me with the feelings i have towards this surgery.