Smye

Depends what the grief is for.

There is no fixing grief...it's a journey on the griever has go through. Supporting them and being there to soothe, hug, or encourage is the support another can give. Don't take the grief on for yourself, but rather take the experience and be grateful for not feeling their pain.

Ha! I meant it rhetorically as a way to vent frustrations at some folks in the post below, but you are all dead on! http://gaywifeconfusinglife.blogspot.com/

@pink dahlia, Touche`!