Hi Bob, I am brand new to this journey. Although I feel nervous about having surgery I am MORE nervous about the quality of my life if I don't change it and get healthy. I will be 49 in May and my goal is to be 50 & fit NOT 50 & fat. I have 2 grandsons to keep up with and a wonderful husband to grow old with. I have come to realize that I am a great dieter. I have lost the same 50 lbs. 10 times over the surgery will be the tool to help me maintain a healthy weight for the rest of my life. Remember...."Nothing tastes as good as thin feels." Wishing you Happy Holidays!!