Thanks everyone for all of your replies it does make me feel better. She is part of the surgery team. I saw the surgeon first then the nutritionist. He didn't say that I would not be a good candidate. He in fact said I would feel so much better after losing the first 40lbs. I guess you guys are right i just needed to hear this from others that know my struggle. My PCP was definitely all for it as she has been with me through a lot of my ups and downs. Thanks, as of right now I'm forging ahead. You guys are the best.