I sympathize as well. I haven't been in a relationship for about 10 years. It wasn't until the past two years or so that I really just stopped wanting to be in a relationship. Now, occasionally, I think I want to date, but it is quickly thwarted by a dud or a jerk. Just wondering when guys began to think it would be a turn-on to "tweet their meat"? They either want to jump into a relationship on the first date or into bed. Where do you find a good man these days?