I am 4 days post op. I know in my head I did the right thing. I am 49 and while my future health was some what of an unknow, it really wasn't. Diabetes, heart disease, aching body etc.
The band is a tool I need. I now feel like my time in the gym, better eating and behavior changes will pay off.
Trust your self. I honestly believe that those who really are not sure would not do it.
Wear are on a new road. Thats scary. But that road has a lot of great things awaiting us as we travel further down it. Yes, even good eating, lol.