Okay so I sent you a reply message butfor some reason I am not able to find it now lol. But again hi April! Its nice to meet you on here just curious what is the RNY? I have heard some people talking about it but ot sure what it is the doctors do? Thank you! It definitely has not been easy at all but will be well worth it. Good luck on the surgery! I wish you a speedy recovery and lots of success!!! Thats funny we are from california! We moved here about 5 years ago for my husband's parents but I sure do miss cali!! Its gets boring out here and so so cold! But its better for raising a family and alittle cheaper but not much from where we lived in stockton. But I miss my family there, its such a battle trying to figure out where to settle but I think its time to take a trip out there and see what its like again.