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myfatisnotaflaw

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  1. Anyone else find unjury to be disgusting? I tried the strawberry one and I just can't get it down. I'm on my last week of my 2 week pre-op diet. And I know I have to do Clear liquids for the first 2 weeks after surgery. Any suggestions? Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  2. Its literally been 2 weeks and I've lost NO weight. I actually gained 3 pounds. I don't know what's going on. I don't want to start feeling like I did this for nothing. I don't want to start getting depressed. I read your stories about stalls all the time and I thought I was prepared for it. But I'm not. I'm starting to feel like I'm just not meant to be smaller. Before you say it....YES I've increased my activity even though I didn't get clearance from the doc yet. I'm not overeating. I'm not eating bullsh*t. I'm actually hungry every few hours. I find myself eating very small meals every 3 hours. I thought hunger pains were supposed to go away! I'm only 21 days post op. In the beginning things were good. I lost 14 pounds in like a week. I don't understand. My period came 13 days after surgery. I gained 3 pounds and the scale hasn't moved since. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME? Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  3. myfatisnotaflaw

    Frustrated beyond belief!

    To answer your questions....nope...not taking PPI. Any suggestions? Also I'm only taking a Multivitamin once a day. That's about all of the supplements I'm taking. So it sounds like everyone is saying 1..stay off the scale 2. Drink more fluids 3. More Protein 4. Look into PPI 5. Stalls are totally normal I thank you ALL for your responses. You have no idea how each of you have helped me.
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    Frustrated beyond belief!

    Thank you so much everyone. I can honestly say I DO see difference in the way my clothes are fitting and my bras. And I am truly grateful for that. To be honest I have been struggling getting in more than 1 litter of fluid and 35g of protein a day. Its like I feel full all of the time. But when I'm NOT feeling full I feel like I'm starving! Its SO weird!
  5. myfatisnotaflaw

    Need encouragement!

    One step at s time sweetie. Pace yourself. Remember this isn't a race. You've waited this long so the little stumbling blocks will only make your final story THAT much greater sug. When there is a will there is always a way. Keep your head up luv Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  6. myfatisnotaflaw

    Sex after surgery

    I was too afraid to ask my doctor how long after surgery do I have to wait to have sex lol answers? Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  7. myfatisnotaflaw

    4 days postop

    Hey! So...it happened! Now I'm sitting here going through the changes. The pain where the stomach was removed really sucks but it's tolerable. When I sip I feel it going down. Sometimes it feels like it wants to come up...but if I just relax and breath it goes right down to my stomach. How long will that feeling last? Besides that and the pain in the area of ejection I'm actually OK. I went to the park today with my bff. Walked around a fee times and shot some hoops with my sons and husband. Think I'll be ready for work Tuesday. My calves are pretty sore too. Not painful though. When I was walking I felt it trying yo cramp...but they never did. I just walked it out. I really hope I'm getting the liquids I need to keep me hydrated. Suggestions? Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  8. I hear and see this a lot. Is this a stupid question? What do the docs mean by "Are the liquids tolerable"? Or "Make sure your food is tolerable before going to the next stage". Does this mean: Am I vomiting after I drink or eat? Is it painful when the food goes down? Does the liquid stay down? Does it feel like it's coming back up but stays down? Do you feel the food processing or dropping into your stomach pouch? So many variations to this term "tolerable". Can someone make it plain for me? Help someone. Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  9. myfatisnotaflaw

    Unjury win!

    Omg! After having the strawberry flavor the other day I almost gave up on all injury products! I was so discouraged and I'm in my pre-op stage. I was freaking out like what the hell am i going to do post op?But this chicken Soup one IS ACTUALLY GOOD! So glad I pressed through the fear and tried another flavor!!!! Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
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    Sleeve set for September 14

    Congrats on your new birthdate! Sent from my SM-N930T using the BariatricPal App
  11. Hey! I'm looking for some new sleeve friends in Northern NJ or NYC. I live in the Oranges. My date is August 30th. I'd love to connect with pre and post op girls to give and get support. If you're in the area introduce yourself. #letsconnect My FAT is NOT a Flaw
  12. myfatisnotaflaw

    I got my new birthdate!

    I've been contemplating this weight loss surgery for two plus years. I've been going to doc appointments on and off during these two years. Starting and stopping. Thinking I could do it on my own etc. I finally completed all of my requirements and paperwork was submitted two months ago. The insurance was having a hard time reading the paperwork (supposedly) but finally I GOT APPROVED!! My new birthdate (surgery date) is August 30, 2016. I call it my new birthday because this is definitely birthing and giving me new life. No one knows about this except my parents and my husband and my children. I know I am going to get HELL over it because I am a staple in the plus community. I have a business that caters to plus size women. I empower them to love their bodies as it is. I am also an author and plus body advocate. So I'm sure there will be people saying "hey I thought you loved your body. You sold out!" But its not like that. I do love my body. I love my curves. But my health is not where its supposed to be. I am borderline EVERYTHING! And I have no control when I'm eating sometimes. I often say things like I wish I had something that would force me to stop eating bullshit. Then I realize...THERE IS!! I will not allow anyone to make me feel bad about my decision because truly I've tried everything. I don't want to loose weight because I hate my body. I'm loosing the weight because I LOVE my body. I have children that I need to keep up with. I have goals I want to accomplish and being the size I am and being borderline diabetic, and having high blood pressure is not good....and I'm not even 30 yet! So this surgery is giving me a new life. I've been big all of my life. I don't know what it's like to be anything less than a size 22 since my freshman year of high school. And in the 2nd grade I wore a womens size 14! I am ready to experience life from a new perspective. A healthier one. One with less restrictions. And I'll still continue to fight for the equality of my plus size sisters and brothers and continue to encourage women to have confidence in their curves. I am even working on my third book all about this process and my journey. I am excited to embark on this new journey. LIFE IS WAITING! www.TrojahBrands.com
  13. myfatisnotaflaw

    I got my new birthdate!

    Aww thanks so much darling for the support! And congrats on your journey! My FAT is NOT a Flaw
  14. myfatisnotaflaw

    I got my new birthdate!

    Omg that's soooooo kray My FAT is NOT a Flaw
  15. myfatisnotaflaw

    How soon did you go back to work?

    I've been wondering the same exact thing. My surgery is the 30th. And my doctor said something similar. Only I work 8 hour days not 12 or 13. Can't wait to see the responses here.
  16. myfatisnotaflaw

    Waiting... still waiting...

    I FINALLY GOT MY DATE!!! AUGUST 30TH!! I'M SO HAPPY!
  17. I GOT MY NEW BIRTHDATE!!

    1. Valentina

      Valentina

      Good lord! I too old to want another birthday. I don't even acknowledge the one I have now!!! Seriously, that is great news. When is it? Is you mother having contractions yet???? :)

       

  18. myfatisnotaflaw

    People and their big mouths

    Let me tell you something baby girl...it sounfs like you got a hater on your hands. This person was probably jealous of you before your weight gain and now that you are working hars to get back to a size that makes YOU happy they probably feel threatened again. Dont you dare allow the ignorance of others to interfere with your progress and your success. Tell them to kiss your "still fat ass"! Jerks! Sent from my SM-N920C using the BariatricPal App See.....and this just confirmed what I said about them being jealous lol smh Sent from my SM-N920C using the BariatricPal App
  19. myfatisnotaflaw

    Waiting... still waiting...

    I'm right there with you girl. Same situation similar dates and all. But you are right. God got you this far...he won't fail you (us) now. Keep the faith darling. Sent from my SM-N920C using the BariatricPal App
  20. So I've been at this process for a year and a half. I started then changed my mind and decided to loose weight on my own again. I quickly hit a plateau and decided that the surgery was definitely a necessity for me. so I had to do all of my appointments over again and now everything has been submitted and it's been 2 weeks and I have not heard back from the coordinator. I spoke to her last week she says she has not heard back from the insurance yet and I am going crazy! I start a new job next week and I'm trying to figure everything out because I know I am going to need time off to recover but it's a brand new job. I really hope they understand that my health comes first and I've been battling with this all of my life and have been going through this process for over 1 year! any ideas or suggestions on how to deal with this waiting part with the insurance company? anybody out there have Horizon NJ Health Insurance? how long did it take you to get your approval? thanks so much for the help Sent from my SM-N920C using the BariatricPal App
  21. myfatisnotaflaw

    Horizon NJ Health, 12 month wait?

    I just had a baby in 2011 so I've been seeing my GYN. I think since having my baby I onlynsaw my PCP once or twice. Maybe I should get those records from my GYN. I was my heaviest then too.
  22. myfatisnotaflaw

    Horizon NJ Health, 12 month wait?

    Anyone did NOT have the 5 year weight history with their PCP? I'm new typo the area so I've only seen this PCP twice about weight concerns. I'm afraid this who'll be an issue????
  23. myfatisnotaflaw

    Tomorrow is the big day 1/15/15

    How many days have you been out @@sweetgagrl00
  24. myfatisnotaflaw

    Horizon NJ Health, 12 month wait?

    oh my goodness! Diane's next appointment isn't until Feb. 24th! I'm trying to have my surgery date waaayy before then. So...looks like I'll be dishing out this $100 for the website eval. I have my appointment with them today at 5pm.
  25. myfatisnotaflaw

    Horizon NJ Health, 12 month wait?

    Alright alright!!! Sending all positive vibes. Yaayy!

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