jane13

sometimes so called " friends" are more toxic than anything else.

sounds like my surgery. I hated not being able to drink for so long. keep moving and stay hydrated. you got this!

@@cookies_queen - Southside or riverside? good luck!

I had a sore throat for about a week. I had no other issues though.

@RJ'S/beginning - I am post a little over 6months and after two kids and yo-yo dieting for the last 15+ years my body has gone "south". When I run or walk quickly, and I am bra-less, the girls flap! The tummy flaps as well now. Like @@LipstickLady said only my dear hubby sees me and he says he likes me just the way I am. I accept that. I cannot afford surgery either so I will take my health over cosmetic any day! There are lots of us out here flapping, sagging and drooping. Be proud you are getting healthier and forget the rest. jane

@@songsmith - I am going to enjoy some protein first, then a small serving of stuffing/gravy and cranberry sauce. I will probably have that for "dessert".

@@Ryan TN - maybe, maybe not. I didn't get sick but the smell of something really sweet (or perfumed) makes me queasier (sp?) now that I am post.

@@Tssiemer1 - focus on yourself getting healthier and make sure mom gets to the doctor as well - hubby is just probably stressing in his own way. It is a lot to deal with for everyone involved You are all in my prayers (including hubby)

@@jenn1 - are you serious? IMHO I would be afraid of circulation issues with all of the binding and etc.

@@ladi81 - yes. I would still track what you are eating. when is your next follow-up appt?

@@Alex Brecher - you are not excluded....let's see a new pic, sir. we appreciate too!

correction daughter 1985

welcome to the family! keep us posted

current weight? last time....2004ish first time 8 months PG with son 1991

@Tanika81. can I adopt you???? made my day today, kid!

my mom died from throat cancer that started in floor of her mouth...I never developed the habit. thank god! I tried...ex smoked....

I agree, that it's pretty normal. I was recuperating in a 25' RV while my house was being completed. Plus hubby and 23 y/o son do not get along too well...

@@LadyValeria - great idea, doing the surgery together. I have a very supportive hubby who eats ALOT healthier now so he has lost about 20 lbs since I started my journey. Its a no-brainer to have support!

I cut mine to my shoulders because it was thinning. I am hoping to have it a little longer soon - too curly and poofy short. I have curly hair.

I am 52 and WAYYYYY past having kids but because I am pre-menopausal I had to take a pregnancy test "Aunt Flo" hasn't been over but once, and it was a "brief" two day visit, in her old rusty red Cadillac since surgery!!!! WOOO HOOOOO

@Dub - YES!!! I did the same thing. My BP dropped after about 25 lbs, I cut my dose in half. I was also on Vitamins from day 1. Stay hydrated as well. It will make you feel sluggish. I bet its the BP meds.... Congrats!

ditto....you look like sisters!

@@stephh I am in again. Third times a charm right? I haven't made the last two challenges THANKS So much for doing this! SW 193 GW 179

my son had a friend in high school who had the surgery when he was around 14. not sure but I believe it was either band or bypass. he was really heavy. I felt bad for him.

I have, like others, donated tons of clothing to Goodwill. I use to shop there. I went inside Saturday, the brand new BIG store that was just built near my home. I was floored at how expensive the clothes were - $14.99 for jeans? 9.99 for capris? These were not name brands. Now I know how they could afford the BIG store with the kind of expensive landscaping & such~ I will hit the markdown racks at walmart, yard sales or consignment shops until my weight & bank account can compete.