Hello all!
I was banded earlier THIS week! And... have already lost 11 lbs !!!
I only told my DH when I wanted to start the process. Mostly cause I have been on a ton of diets over the years (just like everyone else w/ the band) and didn't want to hear negative stuff.
After I was on my way through the diet, almost at the end, I started telling a few people. Some thought surgery was drastic and shouldn't I just stick to my diet (btw - pre-band, I only lost like 25 lbs - since Feb.) Some were surprisingly supportive, though!
About 2 weeks before my surgery date was official, I pretty much come out of the "banded closet". I figured it was easier then answering all of the questions later. It was better than I thought, actually.
I think telling someone you are trying to accomplish something is actually harder than just telling them you are doing it.
Hope that helps to anyone wondering if they should come out of the "banded closet", too.