I only told my favorite cousin, because she is banded and my best friend. I am also afraid of the reaction that I will get from others. However, I have made a decision to be a healthier me. My little white lie is, I have been complaining about stomach pains and nausea, telling my family & friends that I might have to have surgery to remove my gallbladder. I am working toward a December 29 th surgery date. Good luck @@Dualstarr!