I hear Ya!!!. I've been overweight my entire adult life. I've lost and gained too many pounds to mention. Tell him....YoYo dieting is not good for your body either. I have a sister-in-law that lost a kidney from YoYo dieting! My husband tells me to show self control! He's a diabetic with blood sugars 3 times the norm, has a 42 inch waist on a 5'7" frame....but I should so self control!! I want to be comfortable and healthy...not a size 2!