Elode

This may sound cruel but....BYE! Seriously if he's going to leave you at a time like this over the assumption that you "might leave him later" he's too weak for you. What if you get cancer, a terminal illness, lose a leg, hell a finger?! If he's feeling froggy tell him to jump!! Bygones! You're going to need a strong support system and he's obviously not it. Through sickness and in health. He broke his promise now you focus on you! If he truly loves you he'll be back and he can hope you'll even want him. You find out real quick who's there for you in your times of need and who isn't shit....its a good thing really. You may not think that now but give it time, you'll see the light! Now........

@@Queen of Crop Yay! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you! Take it easy.

Lol! Way to go!

I'm not sure but I'd say that's really good. Don't make yourself crazy depending of numbers. Wasn't that frustrating enough before surgery? Just do what your suppose to do and the weight will come off. Good luck girl!

@@Chrystee My husband didn't say that but he did say "I think you looked the best at 180" ummm excuse me! Well I think you look best without a black eye soooo. That was nearly 40 lbs ago. Then I remembered at 267 he never told me I was fat....his opinions are now null & void! He can't be trusted in the weight determining department so he's found it best just to shut up. Which is just the way I like it!

My all inclusive total for a breast lift with (large silicon anatomical implants) and a tummy tuck will be 10,100. Plus he will reimburse me 600 for my plane ticket. That includes food, compression garments, medications, hospital, nurse care, surgery, transportation ect.... Everything. That's great considering my surgeon here wants close to 16,000 and that's with saline not anatomical implants with only 1 hospital day then I'm on my own at home. You have to be comfortable with whatever you chose and I'm getting more comfortable with Mexico by the day.

@@KristenVSG2014 See now that's why I want to go the Mexico route because the Dr said I will have a nurse come to my hotel everyday for the 12 days and get me dressed, change my bandages ect.. Plus he will be coming by also. I worry about the long term after care but I have a primary DR if anything happens I will see her and she will send me where I need to go. Insurance should cover that kind of thing. If I need a in state plastic surgeon then I have on of those too I can see. It's a toss up.

@@jane13 Ha! Well I don't know about that but my boobs will be in a much higher place!

@@NewSetOfCurves Thank you!

@@katladee Thank you so much! I did wear those legging, out of the house and in public and everything! First time in public. I think this summer I'm going to pass those boots of. Like the traveling pants on boots. They were my first NSV. The one I wanted the most and now they're too big around the legs but I still love them. They need to go to someone else on this journey who will love them as much as I do/did.

@@BestDayEver I wish! Nope, I have to have it 6-8 months. It's been 2. I'm praying for the 6! @@jenn1 lol! Well thank you!

@@jane13 I got my braces today!!!! Now liquids for 4 days. Never ends!

I got my braces today!!! Liquids for 4 days yuck!

@@VDLT Awww thanks love! I got those peepers from my dad. As long as you're eating the right things it's fine! Keep it up!

Here....lets not forget.

Girl, I can't keep up with how often you change your tune. That said, I was simply trying to help. @lipsticklady...were u not calling HP on the language...I'm not trying to start no fresh drama...vut all of this does seem silly for a wls forum...I'm a newbie...trying to get some info...then all this...sorry..but...Really?! Just a newbie trying to get info? I'm calling BS. The first post you ever make is an attacking one lol! Trolling at its finest. Tattling to Alex is cracking me up! You don't think he can read? Hummmm lets see who started this....pretty sure I didn't waste my time with you until you spoke to (at) me. BULLY! Lol please!

Blah blah blah....yes, I'm the big bully when you're the one who came in trying to acknowledge me with your disapproving post. Got it.

@@dtownchica What's "unintelligent" is some moron who can't distinguish an obviously sarcastic post from real. Then you proceed to try and put your ridiculous two cents in and be mother goose telling everyone to "grow up" who liked my post. Stop being such a pretentious twit. Those people got the humor. I wasn't "taking it out" on anybody. Do yourself a favor and don't come for me unless I send for you. You're wasting your time here. Goodnight.

@@RLH7882 Yes but it's a warming effect that it has. Everyone gets that.

I'm not going to hit block either but I think someone who can't read a post and take a joke should get a sense of humor and if thats not something that said person can acquire then one should reframe from commenting on people who do. Jealous ? Maybe that person should spend some time dislodging whatever object they have shoved up ones a**. There! Is that "grow up" enough for you? Sorry you got so offended reading a post that wasn't even directed to you nor did it have anything to do with you.....oh wait no I'm not. PS: "Dtownchica" makes you sound like D town wh*re, you may want to fix that. Look! You won an award!!! Now, if you could kindly shut up when you're talking to me that would be great! ❤️

I had some thinking around the temples and seemed like a lot in the brush but it wasn't that bad....for me anyways.

No you're not. If your doubled over in pain then yes, you are.

Zzzquil and I are secret lovers! It's the best stuff ever! And it's "non habit forming" unless you make sleep a habit.