look just hold your head up high..... everntually most people find out sooner or later, and who really cares what people think or say. it really depends on how you feel inside.
nothing feels as good as thin and believe me i got banded in jan this year and only told 2 people mu mother still dont know and thats how ill keep it,well fo now anyway, as soon she is going to ask what am i doing to loose the weight and ill be honest with her.
you never know you might find someone else with in your friend group who is thinking of the same procedure and you may be setting a healthy weightloss trend.
i know how you must be feeling but just drop the baggage of this stress as you dont need it ......
just push ahead and it is very very worth it all.
i started at 106kgs 23rd jan............ 17 weeks later im now 88.5kg!!!
feel fantastic... hubby cant keep his hands off me!!
cheers and hope this cheers u up.