sweethazel

Wheetsin, i know what you think, and you are wrong. I already said i would stop. In this thread: They started. She responded by reminding them she has them blocked, they came back with more (and where is their repremand?) and she again reminded them she has them blocked. That isnt provoking. They can say whatever they wish, and thats okay? Liz cant even post on the board without this. Because she doesnt fight back i think it makes her an easy target.

losingjustme, try putting someone on 'ignore'. you will see their name, you will see THAT they posted, but you wont see what they wrote. With all the stuff thats been flying round between us all, she would be right in assuming anyway even if i didnt ride her about it. Why are you involved? I believe liz even referenced you as someone she respected in a post on this very thread or another like it?

well that could be my fault, i tell her when i see something thats directed at her and she doesnt always want to hear. She COULD read it on her own just viewing the board as guest, but she doesnt, and i wish she would stick up for herself. I dont see it as provoking. I see it as defending herself. You probably havent seen all the threads where wasa followed her around from thread to thread harassing her. Liz feels like she cant post on the board at all without being harrased. im interested in being banded, but i dont think i will come to this website for support. Its not a lapband support board anymore, its the wasabubblebutt show. Theres a lot of people who make fun of new people who come here for support and help. I think its grown past the purpose of the intent in creating the board. It will get peaceful again and then out of nowhere it starts all over again. I even offered to meet in a new thread and talk it out, and we went, and waited, and they bailed. Liz is being much more mature about it than i have been. I just have a hard time sitting back and watching her be constantly insulted without fighting back. The moderators have stepped in and asked us to stop, and i will. I still see where theyve posted and of course their "supporters" and im reminded of being in grade school again. its got to stop. im willing for this to be the last thats said about it. I bet money it wont be, but im willing to let it go.

My name is Hazel. I didnt know about the band until my niece Liz called me needing help in her re-banding a few months ago. I started checking into the band then, and im looking to see if I can get it. I initially started my account to help support her since she posts regularly here for support. Im currently visiting her and I will bring her back with me down south for the duration of the winter. She lives in Maine and I live in South Texas.

Hi Wheetsin, thanks for asking. I wish people could be allowed to exit the world however they wish, and with as much grace and dignity as possible. If my friend Joe is chronically unhappy, and makes the decision to end his life, I wish i lived in a society where we could plan for that event and celebrate his passing and his choice. I don't think there is a reason that i can step in and say one way or another is a good enough or not good enough reason, you know what i mean? I wish it was a viable alternative for those who wish to utilize it, and the stigma taken away.

lol now thats funny!

laurend, Im just curious as to how you can shed light on your own question. Im truely interested in what your take is on it, o wise one.

seems like you are the most qualified to answer that wasa. Im all eyes/ears....

oye veh. ::smacks forehead::

you know...both of us are online right now, here and wanting to resolve this rediculous thing. This is your maturity? This is how it works? Tell you what..if anything is going to get resolved then it will be through an admin. Ive waited around here long enough. Ive got to go to work in the morning, unlike you.

Liz, dont bother. these two are just blowing off time. Who knows who they are trying to bait now, with all the people they aggrivate on a daily basis, it could very well be bait for someone else. Just keep em blocked. BTW the server proxy thing is very cool, thanks. Seriously, just do as we talked about. These two arent worth your time.

sorry wasaisabobblehead, you quoted me, so i assumed you meant me. and im still here.

well its not me. im still here.

excuse me, but i believe WE"VE all been told by wheet that she is locking the thread if the bickering continues. This seems to be how you operate. Killing threads where anyone dares challenge the great wasabubblebutt. can you not read? take it to a rants n raves section if youd like to pursue this. I'll follow.

oh and a good question, and one that wasabubblebutt has posed to me before: if ive attacked or harrassed you or wasabubblebutt as you say, why havent i not been repremanded, but instead, applauded by MANY people on the board through PM who are sick to death of the bullying, for standing up to the constant array of bs?

question: why does NO ONE know what wasabubblebutt looks like? where are all the pictures of her before and after since shes made goal in ten months right? Seems to me that in order to inspire her vast array of fans she should publish some pics. another question: why do you rush to her posts so frequently? why are you always so far up her tail? You cant seem to come up with topics on your own, or defend your own posts without her. Is there a problem? are you guys siamese twins? whats up with that? question: this isnt the rants n raves section, what are you doing attacking people outside of your cage?

nope sorry, still dont believe you.

ha! boy would she! i imagine she never really intended anything otherwise, but wanted some friendly support to encourage her. So there ya go Wasa, a plethora of supporters who would LOVE for you to continue your 24-7 lapbandtalk vigil.

right. and your word is your proof that you are not the same person? Well. thats enough for me, i totally believe you....not.

sure you are! and everyone she attacks in a thread is my friend and im standing up for them. What's the difference?

really wasabubblebutt, oh i mean, Laurend.... funny how you 'two' are always on the same exact threads when the other needs backing up. Look to thyself sinner.

...furthermore, i havent tried to create one single problem. Ive just voiced my opinion. You are opinionated and direct. What? you cant stand it when someone else is too? Does it deserve a response? take your own advice and just dont.

yeah...i just disagreed. i still disagree. this is what im talking about. someone disagrees with worshiping this person and it's suddently "on". with all due respect about "getting over myself" wasabub..right back atcha and with both fingers if you can read the gesture. I just dont buy into the bs you're slinging. Sorry.

yeah i totally disagree. there are several posts where someone says they know something when in reading the post its obvious they do not, and they NEVER say they are sorry or apologize when they are wrong. ever. There are a lot of people who clame to be one thing when they are not. (im trying to not make this about the person, rather the idea but in this specific case its very difficult. im still trying.) Yum already apologized for any misunderstanding, and its not enough, you got to go on and post and post and post about it instead of just letting it go. I know that wasa has a great deal of fans on here, as devoted to the website as she is, it doesnt suprise me. It doesnt mean that everyone on here is a fan, nor do they have to be. I myself could come around more if she could either admit when shes wrong rather than continue attaking, or at least say "im sorry" when shes wrong. I dont expect that will ever happen. ill get in trouble for this i bet. I dont want that, but i just have a hard time with all the back patting going on when someone already said they were sorry and hoped they didnt affend.

linda thats very normal...slow way down and take VERY small bites (size of pinky fingernail). i still have to push away while everyone else is eating if i eat too fast. you will get used to the signals in time. Try using a babyspoon to eat with, it forces you to take very small bites. in time you dont even think about it anymore you just do it automaticly. also...try ground turkey. i love it. I still cant do chicken real well but find i dont miss it so much really.