sweethazel

Wheetsin, i know what you think, and you are wrong. I already said i would stop. In this thread: They started. She responded by reminding them she has them blocked, they came back with more (and where is their repremand?) and she again reminded them she has them blocked. That isnt provoking. They can say whatever they wish, and thats okay? Liz cant even post on the board without this. Because she doesnt fight back i think it makes her an easy target.

losingjustme, try putting someone on 'ignore'. you will see their name, you will see THAT they posted, but you wont see what they wrote. With all the stuff thats been flying round between us all, she would be right in assuming anyway even if i didnt ride her about it. Why are you involved? I believe liz even referenced you as someone she respected in a post on this very thread or another like it?

well that could be my fault, i tell her when i see something thats directed at her and she doesnt always want to hear. She COULD read it on her own just viewing the board as guest, but she doesnt, and i wish she would stick up for herself. I dont see it as provoking. I see it as defending herself. You probably havent seen all the threads where wasa followed her around from thread to thread harassing her. Liz feels like she cant post on the board at all without being harrased. im interested in being banded, but i dont think i will come to this website for support. Its not a lapband support board anymore, its the wasabubblebutt show. Theres a lot of people who make fun of new people who come here for support and help. I think its grown past the purpose of the intent in creating the board. It will get peaceful again and then out of nowhere it starts all over again. I even offered to meet in a new thread and talk it out, and we went, and waited, and they bailed. Liz is being much more mature about it than i have been. I just have a hard time sitting back and watching her be constantly insulted without fighting back. The moderators have stepped in and asked us to stop, and i will. I still see where theyve posted and of course their "supporters" and im reminded of being in grade school again. its got to stop. im willing for this to be the last thats said about it. I bet money it wont be, but im willing to let it go.

My name is Hazel. I didnt know about the band until my niece Liz called me needing help in her re-banding a few months ago. I started checking into the band then, and im looking to see if I can get it. I initially started my account to help support her since she posts regularly here for support. Im currently visiting her and I will bring her back with me down south for the duration of the winter. She lives in Maine and I live in South Texas.

Hi Wheetsin, thanks for asking. I wish people could be allowed to exit the world however they wish, and with as much grace and dignity as possible. If my friend Joe is chronically unhappy, and makes the decision to end his life, I wish i lived in a society where we could plan for that event and celebrate his passing and his choice. I don't think there is a reason that i can step in and say one way or another is a good enough or not good enough reason, you know what i mean? I wish it was a viable alternative for those who wish to utilize it, and the stigma taken away.

lol now thats funny!

laurend, Im just curious as to how you can shed light on your own question. Im truely interested in what your take is on it, o wise one.

seems like you are the most qualified to answer that wasa. Im all eyes/ears....

oye veh. ::smacks forehead::

you know...both of us are online right now, here and wanting to resolve this rediculous thing. This is your maturity? This is how it works? Tell you what..if anything is going to get resolved then it will be through an admin. Ive waited around here long enough. Ive got to go to work in the morning, unlike you.

Liz, dont bother. these two are just blowing off time. Who knows who they are trying to bait now, with all the people they aggrivate on a daily basis, it could very well be bait for someone else. Just keep em blocked. BTW the server proxy thing is very cool, thanks. Seriously, just do as we talked about. These two arent worth your time.

sorry wasaisabobblehead, you quoted me, so i assumed you meant me. and im still here.