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Lol!!! You Go Gayle!!!! You Got Your Official Freak Bandage!!!

Lol @ Destiny ... So U Been Gettin It In Since U Been Banded Huh Lol!!! I Haven't Tried The Creams Yet Lol But I Have Heard Of Them ... My Hubby Just Has To Blow On My Nipples And I Am Ready Lol ... I Freak Born And Bred ... Fat Or No Fat I Feel Insecure At Times Sure ... We All Do But Once This Weight Is Gone ... There Is No Stoppin Me ... Super Head Number 2 ... With Just My Hubby Only Though Lol!!

010308 Girl I totally feel you ... my man can be just as messy too I hate it too. Like I am constantly cleaning when he is home and he has no desire to be clean LOL!! But I try and let that shit go when we get to the bedroom ... discuss issues out of the bedroom is what I would say that's what I do ... and he has been alot better so far ... he is now putting the cap back on toothpaste ... and also now leaving dishes in the sink for me ... etc ... a little help here in there he washed 2 loads of clothes for me. My husband really loves me (not saying that ur's doesn't) and he gets really nervous when he pisses me off severely. So he snaps out of the bullshit asap! But all relationships are different. Maybe you should let hubby read your post or sit down girl when u have a minute to yourself and write/type him a long letter about how u feel ... that's what i did ... and hubby was totally unaware tell him about your desires and what makes you feel good. If this is you man your husband the one you love and wanna be with tell him ... marriage is a compromise give and take all day everyday! So he has to maybe step it up a notch for you ... you are his woman and he should respect your feelings! Hopefully your babies see you guys happy and things especially if you have daughters... they are learning right now how to interact with the opposite sex from the parents alone... (child psych major) I try and tell everyone that who already have kids cause some people don't realize it ... And I dont want people to think that I am preachin or anything ... just putting in my 1.50 cents LOL!! Love to all apples!

yEAH ... I guess so ... and I expect some ... but I have heard since we are having the band and we loose it more gradually skin is less loose... it has some time to catch up more than with bypass or any others.

Great idea girl!! This will be my excuse definetely!!!!! I am getting a swing as soon as I reach the 200 pound mark!! I will be the first to admit I am a freak!! LOL I get it from my mama!!

Well my hubby would totally not take me withholding sex from him ... it;s something going on with her maybe it is like 010308 says ... or maybe she isn't feeling attractive I don't know. And I could see that bothering you Justin. I would be really hurt if my hubby just showed no desire to no longer make love to me ... so that would hurt any spouse. And 010308... don't you get horny ?? I am fat and feel unattractive at times too but I still get horny and I still have the desire to wanna please my hubby eventhough I feel ucky at times but I still made a promise to my husband when I said my vows ... I know we are 2 different people as well but I just curious to know... u don't have to answer if you dont want to ... But I noticed that you mentioned that u were not having sex either.

Justin I Am Soooooooooooo Sorry To Hear That!! That's Wrong ... Ur Wife Should Not Be With Holding Sex From You Unless You Have Cheated On Her!! That's In The Bible!! But I Wish I Had Some Suggestions For You ... Do You Still Make Her Feel Wanted, Sexy, Attractive You Know. Smack Her On The Ass An Say Damn Baby You Got A Phat Juicy Ass... (not Fat Lol!!!) Or Grab Her And Give Her One Of Those Passionate Kisses That Us Chicks Go Crazy Over Like The Ones That Automatically Make Out Panties Wet.... Yeah Ladies You Know Which One I Am Talking About. I Think Us As American With All The Sex Sells And Porno Stuff Alot Of Us Get Married Start Families And Become Total Prudes About Sex... And That Shouldn't Be We Should All Be Open To An Extent. And If Your Children Never See You Cuddle, Kiss, Love Each Other Between A Man And Woman They Will Not Now How When They Get In To The World... The Tv Would Be The Thing Doing All The Teaching And Than Comes Teen Pregnancy And A Whole Heep Of Shit ... Lol ... So Let's Get It 2gether People!!! Love To All Apples!!

Darn ... bummer well girl I wish you the best ... Atleast you KNOW now that you will be banded soon ... it;s not some where out in the wind LOL. Hope things pan out for you!! Can't get ANYONE to baby sit him ??

Tai did they cancel your surgery date??? what happened??

well I am a army wife ... and you know what they say about us ... LOL FREAKS!!! I wanna jump my hubby everytime I see him ... can't wait til I am thin enough to literally jump on him. LOL right now it would be a "Norbit" scenario LOL (not really that fat being scarcastic LOL u get the pic) But I'll be banded on the 6th so I sure one of the Vets will answer you question.

Fairy how did the swing work .... you didn't let us know?!?!?! You know we are all freaks too!! LOL! If you love I am definetely getting one!!!! Can't wait to have skinny sex LOL!

Hey yall!!! I'm Apples y'all probably know of me by now LOL!! I am 20 yrs old I live in NJ currently originally from Mississippi but I have moved alot in my day LOL SC, GA (atlanta), MD, and not here. I am married I have been with hubby for 3 1/2 yrs... only been married for the half 6 months of marriage. He is an army man. I love his guts LOL! Eventhough sometimes I wanna kill him and bring him back to life but all and that's my baby!! I currently a Pharmacy Technician went to school for a yr for this trade also I am a psych major (I am currently taking a break from school right now alot has been going on and my hubby was stationed in TX so I am moving there like 2 months after surgery) I ultimately want to be a child psychologist so I will go back to school once I get to TX. No kids yet have to get myself healthy first so I will be a cute pregnant chick. I'm here to make friends and support. I am 20 yrs old now and I wanna start my new era off sexy and fit. i dont wanna be fat on my 21st birthday!!! It really hurts to excel in every other thing I have done in my life except this. My parents were tough on my I always had straight A's on school and miss smarty pants in my books but whne it comes to this !! So I just pray, hope, and wish that the band will be the key to unlock this ball and chain called my weight! Thanks for read LOVE 2 ALL!!

Hold Up Wait A Minute Let Apples Put Her 2cents In It Lol!!! Hey Y'all!!! Most Of You Probably Know Me!! I Am 20 Yrs Old Sooooooo Ready To Be Banded!! I Am Scared/nervous At The Same Time Cause I Am So Used To Failing At Diets And I Dont Wanna Fail At This!! I Need This To Work!! I Am Married No Kids ... I Want To Be Happy With My Body And I Want To Let The Inner Me Alot ... Lol That Alot Of You See Here! That's Who I Am But I Can't Always Be That Because Of My Weight I Am Very Subconcious And Insecure. I Have Been This Way Since A Little And I Am Sick And Tired Of It ... And If U Don't Know By Now Apples Sure Is A Freak Freak Freakkkkkkk (refer To The New Snoop Dogg Song Lol) So I Wanna Let That Freak Out In The Bedroom For My Hubby!!! Yeah I Am A Horny Bitch And I Don't Care Who Knows Lol ... Most Fat Chicks Are Lol!!! But Anyway Much Love To Everyone And I Am So Happy To See The "20's" Thread!!!

I am 20 yrs old and being banded on the 6th of FEB ... I wish you the best of luck Jacole!!! I am sooooooooooooo READY TO BE AN AVERAGE 20 YR WOMAN!!! size 12 JEANS HERE I COME!!!

I'm February 6th!! We all have to keep up with each other guys!!! We are gonna be band buddies!! With our dates so close!! But BTW are you guys eating everything now. Do you feel like you are going over board ??? Just a tad now like well I'll be banded soon anyway I might as well eat it ... Or let me hurry and eat it now cause I won't be able to soon... Lemme know how your eating habits are post band. Have you started to practice your chewing ... and or putting your fork down in between bites. The excessive chewing is very hard for me.

So d owe need more people to vote ?? How does this work ??

ok well who's all for Dueces wild ... do we vote closer to the end of the month ??

OK GUYS I'M REALLY SCARED NOW!! I HAVE BEEN READING MY ASS OFF AND I DONT WANT TO EXPIERENCE THE PAIN WITH EATING and don't wanna pb ... I DONT WANNA SLIM ... HOW DO I PREVENT THESE THINGS FROM HAPPENING ... NOW THAT I HAVE A DATE I AM KINDA NERVOUS TIMES 10!! I LOOK AT BEFORE AND AFTER PICS AND I GET ALL EXCITED BUT THAN WHEN I READ ABOUT COMPLICATIONS I GET SCARED! I JUST DON'T WANNA FAIL AT THIS ... IT'S SO MANY DIETS THAT I HAVE FAILED AT I DON'T WANNA SCREW THIS UP! THIS IS MY LAST RESORT.:help:

that doen't sound to bad ... i thought it was wayyyyy worse LOL!! but as I said just hoping for the best!! Hey I sent you a friend request!! Gorgeous kids ... eventhought I don't know which are yours LOL

did it hurt when you pb'd did it just come right back up whole as it when down ???

Thanks Destiny (just Noticed You Changed Ur Sn Lol) How Have You Been?!?! Have You Pb'ed Or Slimmed Yet?? I Am Excited At The Same Time. I Am Just Looking Forward To Being Healthy ... It's Finally A Light At The End Of The Tunnel. The Insurance Company Was Great. The Coordinator Was Right I Picked The Best East Plan! I Was Shocked!! No Hassle Nothing Like That Just Stamped It And Sent It Back!! I Was Like Damn ... Ok!! Lol I Am Very Pleased! I Know A Month Will Pass By Soon. I Just Feel For The People Who Have To Self-pay (if They Really Cant Afford It) After My Insurance Company Was So Easy. I Didn't Have Time For Aetna's Games And Or Bs ... I Am Very Happy With My Decision. Now I Am Just Hoping That The Band Will Be The "best Decision Of My Life" Like Alot Of People Here. The Before And After Pics Are My Motivation!

Thanks Susan ... I Just Wanna Get This Done With Lol ... I Wish That Band Cam With Instructions Lol!!! I Just Wanna Be Done With The "weight" Issue In My Life ... It's Been Such A Barrier My Whole Life And I Wanna Be Done With It!! I Can't Wait. I Just Dont Want Anything Awful To Happen. I Will Be So Catious When I Get Banded Like Walking Around A Whole Floor Of Tacks Lol!! I Just Want To Do Everything To The Best Of My Ability! But I Must Admit I Am Terrified Of Pb'ing And/or Sliming ... I Wiill Never Touch A Damn Soda If I Have To Lol!

So what's up with our names guys??

GUYS I HAD THE MOMENT THAT I HAD BEEN WAITING FOR 2DAY! I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT! I WAS APPROVED. THE COORDINATOR CALLED ME THIS MORNING (I WAS OFF 2DAY) AND SHHE LEFT ME A MESSAGE I DIDN'T RECOGNIZE THE NUMBER THOUGHT THAT IT WAS A BS CALL AND ROLLED OVER LOL. I CHECKED MY MESSAGES AT ABOUT 4 TODAY SHE SAID IT SO NONCHALANTELY "I GOT YOUR AUTHORIZATION FOR SURGERY BACK 2DAY ARE YOU READY TO SCHEDULE A DATE" I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT! IT ALL WAS SURREAL! I STILL HAVE TO GET A CLEARANCE LETTER FROM GYN BUT IT FINALLY CAME TO LIFE! THE DAY THAT WE ARE ALL DREAMING OF! I WILL LET YOU GUYS KNOW MORE AS SOON AS I DO HOPEFULLY MONDAY. SO MY DATE IS FEBRUARY 6TH 2008 MY 2ND BIRTHDAY! :whoo: :whoo: :whoo: