Hi, I'am over weight myself but haven't had surgery. My mother had surgery 3 years ago. She lost 20 something pounds in the first 2 months. She broke her arm and seem to give up. Now she weighs more than before surgery. She won't do support group and won't let anyone help her. I don't know what to do and worried sick about her. She hasn't been back to doctor and sure she's eating all the time. Sad and worried!????