Ok your going through a little of what i am. i went to my friends and some of them said the same thing oh you can do it you been exercising your just being lazy, and trust me that hurt, when I went to my family a whole different out come they were very supportive of me, I have mine this friday the 2nd and my mom said to me just today that she is proud of me for me and she is glad that I made this chose to help better my life. girl go for it don't tell anybody just go for it.