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my hubby and i have been married for a year and dated for 2 year....when we 1st started dating he told me how much his sister meant to him and if she didnt like me he would probably stop talking to me...i didnt think much of this cuz i really wasnt looking for a serious relationship...his sister liked me and we get a long and everything....but every couple of weeks this b*tch will say or do something so evil that i wanna kill her....and if i ever try to vent to hubby it always my fault and im acting like a b*tch......for example she owes us $1900.00 which she had to pay back Jan 1st..so we can pay rent...she calls us on the 1st and says she doesnt get paid until the 5th and will give us the money then...our rent is due on the 5th...so its 5th and she says she still doesnt have her pay check yet and she will get it on the 7th early in the am...so around 10am today i went by her office asked for the check i got a really rude and wtf relpy..."Well I dont have my paycheck you guys just need to sit tight until i can get the money...and please dont bring personally business into my office" out of respect for my hubby and my mother and father in-law i kept my mouth shut! so now its 2:30 and of course my hubby hasnt called the land lord to tell him wats going on...the landlord called saying it needs to get paid today!! i call hubby tell him to call his sister and ask for the money today before 5...cause we have to depoist into the landlords bank! he tell me to call her...i tell him if she says something stupid im going to snap and tell her off.....this is wat my hubby said ......"will you just stop acting like a total bitch...shes trying her best to get the money to us..its not like shes going to run away and we are never going to see her....god anita you can be such a bitch" so i tell him to go shove it....he tells me " shut the fuck up bitch" and hangs up on me!!!! i think im going to go home pack my bags and go to my mothers house who lives 5 hours away! anyone else think im being a total bitch?? sorry i know this is long but i had to get it off my chest theres no one else to turn to!

I have my date NOV 10th in Mexico, my mom had heres done in Mexico also, when she went down there they gave her the option of either lapband or midband. I've only been reseraching the lapband, cause that wats i wanted. can anyon tell me what the difference is? I've looked both of them up on the internet and they baiscally look like the same thing! So can anyone tell me the difference and pros and cons of each one thank you

Where in San Diego if you dont mind me asking?

congrats!! i'm 7 weeks prego and have this all day sickness as well!! it sucks i know exactly wat ur talking about the whole bloated feeling...im going to try some of ur remedies see if they help....good luck!

I haven't had a normal cycle since i started gaining weight a few years ago...well im down 45lbs (yay) and i started spotting well yesterday i have really bad cramps so i figured yay period is back...i've been going through about 10 tampons plus 10 pads since yesterday..its very strong and very red blood i dont mean to be gross but when im on the toliet even before i pee the bowl water turns pink from all the blood...normally i'd be at my doc telling him this but my company decided to cancel everyones health insurnace and not tell them...so ladies has anyone else had this problem..i dont know if its because i havent had it in a long time and it needs to get cleaned out or what but im freaking out....help.....

thank you all for sharing your answers and story!! so yesterday after post my question..i was walking to the bathroom and i feel my tampon get pushed out of me and fall in my undies....i ran to the bathroom and a golfball size of tissue had pushed my tampon out!! i was freaking out...i called my husband to come cuz i mean this thing was huge!!! some i just hoped in the shower ever since then no more blood...i have spotted but nothing else........wtf is going on....my docs appt is monday

thank you ladies for the quick response...i am going to make an appt with my doc just to get checked out and ease my mind thank you again!

My mother was banded last July...she lost about 60lbs and her port is right under skin like you can feel it and see it. Well today the port broke out o her tummy...she has little tube of the band sticking out of her.....the doctor said its normal for people who lost too much weight..so now they have to do in and put the port in deeper in her tummy...anyone else have heard of this happening?? cuz i've lost weight and i can already feel mine :sneaky:

I need some prices on how much it cost to get a band removed....my mom has a bad port infection that is working its way up to her band...the doc in the CA said he would remove it for 13000$......wayyyyyy out of her budget..she had her band placed in mexico sooo anyone know the price for having it removed in mexico......if u have prices please post...im going around lika mad person calling different docs and searching at the same time!!!

Hi just wondering how many of you have had to have your port moved or had to get it replaced with a newer thinner one and how much did it cost?

My mom had her banded placed in Mexico last june. She hasn't had any problems until recently when she reached her goal weight her port was right under her skin and was visble. she called the dr in mx and he said he could put it deeper in her tummy to solve the problem it would be $1000.00. So my mom said ok lets go for it she was scheduled for surgery last saturday. My dad and a friend drove her down there and they told her it would be $1500.00 even though they had told her $1000.00 before. So she said fine, She didnt want to get into it with them after all they are about to cut her open. Right before she is about to go into surgery they tell her the dr who original put the band in here was out of town and and the other dr they have will be preforming the surgery. My mom was a little worried but it was already to late to call it off. So shes in surgery for 30mins the dr comes out and tells my dad her body is rejecting the band and the band is 15% in her stomach!!!!!! and that they cant remove it until its about 65% in her stomach. My dad really couldnt understand them because this new drs english isnt very good.!! and instead of the $1500.00 he only charged $700.00! So my they came back to the states and my mom went to our family dr who ran some tests and said there is nothing wrong. he took x-rays, had her do the barium stuff but everything is perfect!!!! anyone else have had problems like this?? now i need to find a good dr in mexico or the U.S that can do her port surgery any suggestions?? i know this is very long sorry!:smile:

thats all im asking for, im just trying to find anyone who might have the same problem. Or anyone who can recommend another dr.

the clinics name is Obesity Goodbye and Dr is Dr. Rios, the surgeon is Dr Ponce de leon and Dr Sergio (Sergio is the original dr who placed her band)

the dr in the us did some other kind of scan, the dr said it would show if there was anything wrong. He told her the band is in place and looks good.

same here!! I think its gas or air trapped in your jaw!!

It wasn't anything sharp its just from the port rubbing back and forth. she is schedule for a port replacement saturday

So the port can be replaced?

I've never had any problems with my band slipping but i've read tons of post that sometimes unfilll will let the stomach fall back into place....look up some of the post they will have more info

Hi Im from norcal too!! welcome to LBT!!! this site is great you'll get pretty much all your questions anwsered

Hey I moved to San Jose about 1 1/2 year!!! i also love it here.....where in the bay are you from?

thanks ladies i went my parents house last night..went home this morning to get some more stuff and he already has a few boxes of his shit packed!!!!im gonna be freee and single!!!

well i talked to the landlord and if the money isnt in his account tonite he is going to kick us out tomorrow morning...then called my parents told them i was coming my parents are going to lend me the money to pay the rent and they said i could pay them back whenever they are not in a rush...called my husband told him to get his shit outta my house by the end of the week...or else im calling the cop....the lease is under my name..he asked where the hell is he supposed to live until we resolve our issues i suggested his loving sister house!!

yea i feel like im stuck between a rock and a hard place....i cant belive he said those words to me...never ever has that happened before...but if i let it slide this time it will become a regular thing... and yea im only 23 i dont need to deal with this crap yet!!thanks everyone

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