My husband just had the lap band placed on Tuesday and have been looking for a suport group for spouses and familys because I want suport him any way I can. We have 3 boys ages 14,12 and 6 and they need their daddy around liviing and healthy. Any tips or anything will help because this in not going to come inbetween us anything eles it will make it stronger God has given us this gift now we are going to use it.