Jenny W

Hi again Bigb, You already probably know that drinking with or straight after meals is a no-no because it helps the food move through into the big stomach below your banded one, so the feeling of satiety (if you have it) doesn't last as long as it should. I have found it hard not to drink after a meal, but if I distract myself straight after the meal, by doing the dishes, or something, before I know it, an hour or 2 has gone by, and drinking is ok. Maybe this could be part of why you are still hungry after eating. (not the emotional hunger of course). Don't give up!

Hi Bigb, I feel for you. I'm in the same emotional boat - hard to overcome old emotional eating habits, although now I at least eat less. I have just had my 2nd fill, but don't feel any more restriction than after the 1st fill. Dr says everyone is different and it takes a few fills to get the right balance. I only lost 2lbs over the last month!! Maybe your eating has stretched the band? What does your Dr think? Good luck anyway, it is a constant battle.

Hi jarvisj, Why is it anyone's business but your own? Your boss certainly doesn't need to know and if your MIL doesn't speak to you for 6 months, that mightn't be a bad thing!!! It's hard for me to understand the negativity because I have had support from those I have chosen to tell. One friend said I wasn't fat enough, and didn't need to do it, so I explained that I've struggled all my life, and don't want to end up with obesity related diseases as I had lots of living to do. Just tell those you feel comfortable telling and let everyone else take a hike (I know, easy for me to say). Hope you find a way that suits you, and good luck.

Hi Nick, I had my first fill a couple of days ago (3 weeks post-op here in Australia) - it was virtually painless. Hope yours is too! Good luck, Jenny

Hi Karen, I'm in Australia too (Victoria!). I too started mushies early because I was so hungry and weak. After about a week I progressed to more solid food with no worries. I had my first fill yesterday and was advised I may need to revert to fluids for a day or 2, but I have been fine. Just making sure I chew thoroughly, eat slowly, and small portions. I was worried that I was progressing too quickly too, but Dr said everyone is different - it's trial and error for the next few months. By the way, I lost 3 1/2 kg, so I must have done ok! Best wishes, Jenny

I only had 4 days on liquids because I was so hungry and feeling weak, I was allowed on to mushies 1 1/2 weeks early! But the ideas was: 1 1/2 - 2 weeks liquids, 2 weeks mushies, then gradually more and more solid.

No. I was banded about 20 days ago. I can feel the port under the skin, but no tennis ball! Better get it checked out I think! Good luck.

Good on you Patty - it only gets better and better!!

I know this is getting off the subject, but, can anyone tell me how to transfer my ticker factory thingy to my (wherever it goes). I picked one out but didn't know where to put it! You can obviously tell I'm not too computer literate!!! Thanks for any help.

I agree with everyone - that "nurse" should not be working with lapband patients. We all need support and encouragement. I'm in the same boat as you, in that I feel I can still eat quite a lot, and am hungry - but compared with what I used to eat, it is still less, so that's gotta be good. By the sound of it, after the first fill, things will start to change. Don't let the nurse get you down (I suppose she was stick thin, was she?!!)

:DHi Ann, Yes, we'll all be in our bikinis before long,won't we? The port site is still a bit sore, all other incisions are fine. I'm finding it frustrating trying to remember not to drink straight after meals etc., but it's just another new habit to learn I guess. I haven't weighed myself, can't see any weight loss yet except my face feels a bit thinner. I still feel a bit bloated - don't know if it's the surgery or just my fat!!! Not long now till yours. You'll be glad when it's over. Will be thinking of you on the 6th (which will be the 7th here!!!). Good luck, Jenny

Yes Ann, I thought it was great you snorkel. I would be too embarrassed to put on a swimsuit, or anything else!! Next Dr appointment 12th November.