You are gonna be this young , skinny, HEALTHY thing!:thumbup:
I shopped the idea around like you just to get an initial response.:thumbup:
My best friend of 20 years(since 10th grade) wasn't as excited for me as I needed her to be. This is a person that I have yo yo dieted with since college. We have both been larger and smaller TOGETHER. The Last couple of years I have been about 3 sizes larger.:smile:
When I mentioned the lapband she was not responsive at all. I interpreted that to mean non supportive of my decision.:w00t:
The funny thing is that she is on diet pills now and shares her weight loss victories with me. Now I am very encouraging of her even though I now know that diet pills are a vicious cycle.:frown:
I have not told her that I am definitely getting the surgery (8 days, holla!) I will just show up one day at a girls night out and not be the fat friend!:frown:
Now I will say that based on her lack of response or subject changing that she is not supportive. I have not in good faith tried to talk to her about how this makes me feel. I am just not willing to set myself up for disappointment.:tt2:
Is it possible that by sister from another mister, my tight, my home girl is one of THOSE friends-
Afraid that my surgery will mean that we won't have fat in common anymore?