Loser4ever

Sounds like you have transferred your obsession of weight and fat to this BMI obsession. Look at the big picture.....you have lost so much weight. Your body will not be perfect. Enjoy the journey. Enjoy your weight loss. Decide to be happy.

Really, do you value their opinion? Jealousy can be shown in many ways, including a snarky compliment. Just smile and says thanks. I feel great!

How high was it? That is the key....

All of the negative comments are why I am telling few people about my surgery.

I am not wanting to be told just eat less and exercise. I am doing the preop diet now so everyone knows I am on a high Protein diet, and will be for a while as my surgery date is in process. I have lost 21 lbs on the protein diet so just seem like my diet is working. Later I might decide to share the surgery info. But then not wanting the questions of sis insurance pay, did you pay, how much did it cost? Yek. Just stay silent for now.

In KC self pay is $11,999. Sweet.