hey i can totally relate...i recently went to a concert with husband....I had to leave because i could not fit in the seat...I tried for a while to squeeze in there, but at some point I couldnt even feel my thighs...I had to leave and take a cab home, because we couldnt get our car out...it was so embarrassing, i told the police officer to call me a cab, cuz i had an emergency at home I was so embarrassed...my husband and I never discussed it...he's not heavy at all.