What do you mean that you've ONLY lost 40lbs???
That is alot of weight you've lost. You have to work on just saying Thank you! That's your first step. Compliments can be a little embarassing, especially when it's given toward our weight! I had to learn to just say thank you and try and see what others saw. Whenever you feel like the compliment shouldn't be given to you, think about those size 16 pants and smile! Think about how those 22's are TOO DAMN BIG!!!!
and smile again!!!
Good Luck- you WILL be happy, even before you get to goal. We all go through this, you are not alone!:confused: