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Had my surgery on Tuesday, home yesterday. Doing remarkably well, thanks be to God. I had decided (why I can't recall) to go with powdered Calcium Citrate rather than chew-ables-----BIG mistake--it would be fine if I could drink 1/2 cup of Water in one mouthful but not good with just little sips. Wondering what chew-able calcium supplement people are using and liking. I need to either order them on line or get out and get them because I won't be able to continue with the powder. Thanks!

Had my two month check up on Monday. Team is pleased with my progress. I told them I am scheduled for bilateral knee replacements on Nov 20th and they were not pleased with that bit of information. Their fear is that my weight loss will slow down considerably--or even halt. They would like me to wait a year -- but would even be ok with 6 months -- For a variety of reasons waiting 6 months or a year will be a hardship--may be able to wait until January. Has anyone had experience with joint replacement after being sleeved.

VSGAnn2014--It will be two surgeries because I am having both knees done at the same time. I don't really want to go into the reasons why it is a problem for me to wait. I may be able to wait until January but not longer than that.

Recycled--the thought was that after surgery I wouldn't be able to move very much and that is what would slow the weight loss. I posted here and another support group I am in and it seems that their fears are unfounded. I am grateful for the input.

The team thought is that it would halt or drastically slow my weight loss.

Sandi, I am so glad to hear there are other bariatric vitamins. I also bought UNJURY multi's prior to surgery, mostly because they have only US ingredients. I take them every day but do not like them. When I am finished I will have to try one of your favorites.

I was sleeved on the 5th of August. I have lost 34 lbs since the day of surgery (66 lbs since the start of the journey). Size 18 starting to get big but 16 still too small. I have had no problems with any food I have tried and at times that is scary. I had my 2 month check up today and doc is pleased (although I feel like I am losing so slowly). I am unable to exercise too much because of my knees. I have a tentative date of 20 November for bilateral knee replacements. This was not well received this morning. The bariatric doc would prefer I wait until the one year mark, 6 months at the very least so as not to halt (or drastically slow down) my weight loss. Waiting until February is not really an option. Have been considering waiting until January. There are so many pieces to the puzzle and I feel a bit of a swirl right now. I am going to take some time to weigh all sides. Prayers for this intention are greatly appreciated.

I had my surgery on august 5th and this last week I have found myself to be very weepy--the littlest things make me cry.

In 3rd and 4th grade I was called "power house pig" (although heavy I was strong and athletic) and in 5th and 6th grade it was "moose". It broke my heart but I always pretended it didn't.

One thing I have found about myself and other people who are obese, is we tend to share too much too soon. If you have just started talking with him I would say there is no need to tell him at this point. If after your surgery, and it looks like your talks may be moving in the direction of "relationship" then you can tell him. Test the waters first. A sign of intimacy is to share things close to your heart with someone and not be rejected, judged, etc. If you have just started talking I would say you aren't ready or at the point of that kind of intimacy. good luck with your surgery...you will do great.

I never worried about gulping post-surgery when I was pre....but there have been times since Wednesday (surgery was Tuesday) that I thought, "I am going to forget I can't gulp and end up throwing up". Fortunately that hasn't happened. There have been a few times I have had too many sips too close together...when that happens I get a pain in my belly and it feels like a little cramp. I must say I am really getting much better at knowing exactly how much I can sip at a time. You will do great....stay positive.

I had great thirst during the pre-op phase. I was drinking a gallon or more of water a day and never felt refreshed.

good luck to all those having their surgery this week!!!

stacyfae, I had my surgery on the 5th as well. I can't say I am struggling with the protein shakes, but I have been experiencing "head" hunger. At these times I have to find something else to do--walk a bit outside, watch a movie--stay away from commercial TV since there are so many food commercials, read a book, write in a journal. Our tummies need to heal. And unfortunately the reasons we are overweight do not go away with the surgery--it is going to be tough at times--we need to find new ways to deal with life. Keep on plugging away and you will overcome the wants --- onward to success!!

I had my surgery on Tuesday and had awful headaches the night of surgery and most of the next day. I was told it was from the anesthesia. I haven't had any since so not sure. I am not having any issues taking in enough Water. Have decided I am going to start adding a few ounces here and there of coconut water for the extra boost in electrolytes. Good luck.

Had my surgery on Tuesday--got home yesterday. It is good to be home. Doc said the surgery was "textbook". Recovery went pretty well. Spiked a fever the first night but it turned out to be nothing to worry about. I would say the three worse things so far have been--1. Gas pains (walking, walking, walking is the cure), 2. the barium prior to the leak test (it went fine for the test but afterwards was awful for about 30 minutes), 3. the diarrhea from the barium (was up much of the second night after surgery). Have needed no pain medication since getting home, not having a problem getting my water in, a little slower on the protein. Started my vitamins etc this morning. No issue walking the dog. Slept very well last night. Have been awake for about 3 hours, think it might be time for a nap.

Hey Everyone. I just learned of this forum. Great to be here. I am having my sleeve surgery on Tuesday (Aug 5th). I am single, live alone, have a small dog. The doctor said there was no issue with my coming home alone after surgery, and that I could even walk the dog (only a short distance to start). My sisters are all up in arms and want me go to one of their homes for the first week after surgery. I really just want to be at my own home. Looking for some input to help alleviate my sisters' concerns.

Surgery is at 730 Tuesday morning. Have to be at the hospital by 630. Had a good day--Mass, mani/pedi, then this evening I had a massage. Feeling good. Thank you for all your input on recovery at home alone. Will check in after I get home from the hospital.

Wow...what a wide variety of opinions and experiences. I am going to go it alone, but have set up friends, and cousins who live in the area (my sisters live an hour or more away depending on traffic), as well as a couple neighbors, as back up. If I have problems or complications of any sort one of my sisters will come to tend to me or take me to her house. Will let you know how it all turns out.,. Thank you for the input.

Hi all, just found this forum this morning. My surgery is Tuesday, August 5th. Excited but starting to get nervous. Thought the 2 week pre-op diet was going to kill me...thankfully it has worked out well. The first 8 days were tough but on the 9th day I got a burst of energy and clarity of mind like I haven't had in who knows how long.