I just joined, and I can't tell you how much reading this post and the comments echo what goes through my head on a daily basis. I have not told many people I have had the surgery 2 weeks ago because of some misplaced fear of judgement. I think to myself, if I can control most things in my life, why can't I control my weight/eating. It's far from easy to admit that this is something I couldn't solve on my own. It's far from easy to make the decision to have WLS and to learn to live with the new digestive system post-surgery. To see commercials in every direction selling foods that are desirable but not healthy is hard as hell!! Still working to get my mind right and embrace this new lifestyle, but it helps that I already feel so much better and have more energy.