Ready_in_queens

Thank you all for the responses. You all make very good points. I will definitely not let him influence my decision this time around. I am going to tell him and if he can't get with it I am prepared to end the relationship because I don't want or need that type of negativity going into major surgery/life change.

Hello, I have been lurking on this site for a while and have finally decided to create an account! Last year around march/April I decided that I wanted weight loss surgery. I went through all the doctors appointments and paperwork and scheduled my vsg surgery for august 22, 2013. Problem was that I let my boyfriend talk me out of it. Then earlier this year u found myself frustrated with my weight again and went back to the surgeon and was scheduled for surgery on July 1, 2014 and once again I let my boyfriend talk me out of it. Now I am going back to my surgeon for the 3rd time and I am determined to get my surgery and change my life! Only problem is how do I tell my boyfriend? He is the only person in my life who is not supportive of my decision. I refuse to let him talk me out ofy decision again and honestly I resent him a little but because of it.