Part of the problem is that people do not understand that obesity is a disease. It is a very difficult one to resolve on our own because unlike other diseases Obesity is multi-faceted and involves: metabolic, genes, mental health, etc. there is no medication that can tackle all theses areas at once. If brilliant scientists can create cures to various diseases but cannot solve the obesity issue, then how do people expect to solve it themselves? This is why 99% people gain the weight back who lose it on their own. 50% of people who get weight loss surgery keep it off permanently. It only makes sense to go with the procedure that will result in the best odds.
I was concerned about how my husband and kids would respond to my choice to get the sleeve. But, I shared all of the info I learned from my nutritionist, surgeon, psychologist with them. I also chose to change my lifestyle ahead of time, so that they could see how committed to being healthy I was. As a result, my family supports my decision wholeheartedly, I lost 60 pounds prior to surgery, my husband lost over 40 pounds because he was actually listening to all the info I was giving him!