Hey girl,
I know exactly how you feel! I've had a hard time telling people about my decision to get surgery not only because it is something very personal, but I feel like they may judge me for not being "big enough." My BMI is 37 so the weight is there, it's just distributed evenly lol. Pardon my language, but it's like my momma says, "Don't let the bastards get you down!" People are ignorant and probably jealous that they aren't taking control of their life and their body like you have decided to take control of yours. Keep calm, carry on, and have the last laugh. Good luck!