Hi my names cassie! I'm brand new here(: so I've been researching the sleeve for a month or so now, and I really really want to get it. I'm just so nervous and confused! I know it's something I really want/need to do but I'm so afraid of telling my boyfriend I'm going to get it done.): he's alwAys supportive no matter what I do but I feel like he will make fun of me...we also have a 2 year old son. So I was wondering how many of you have had the surgery with small children. And also how did you talk to your SO about it? One other question is there anyone that has had the surgery at St..Vincent's in Connecticut?