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So, I've been getting into a good exercise routine as my surgery date is quickly approaching (July 8th). I've really enjoyed going to Water aerobics classes and making it a part of my daily routine. Today after the class, I was talking to the instructor and told her how much I was enjoying her classes. I then shared with her the fact that I was having surgery in less than two weeks. As soon as I said it, I could tell from the look on her face that I shouldn't have mentioned it. She then began asking me all kinds of questions like, "Have you tried eating healthier? Eating less? Going to Weight Watchers?" I wanted to scream back at her, "OF COURSE I HAVE!!!", but instead, I just nodded my head and tried to wrap the conversation up. As I was leaving, she handed me a business card about a nutrition program she wanted me to look into before jumping into anything. Ugh! It is so frustrating that you can't share something that you've researched, worked hard to prepare for, and are making major adjustments to your lifestyle to make this entire process a success....just to be judged. I know it's not the first time and probably won't be the last time people look down on me for having the surgery. I am excited about this decision and feel like I don't want to have to keep it a secret, but I also don't want to have to explain myself or feel like people are going to look down on me based on a decision to better myself. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? Who have you shared the info with that you are having or have had surgery with? What have you told people after the surgery when they ask about your weight loss???

I experienced the same thing as you. I went to a seminar at the Dr.'s office and was so excited to get the process rolling. I contacted my insurance company (also BCBS) and then found out about the 6th month supervised diet. I was SO frustrated! I have also been dieting pretty much my entire life with the same results...lose, gain back, lose, gain back, etc. I could've just given up, but I decided to just suck-it up and follow the plan. I met with the Nutritionist, went to all of the required appointments during the 6 months. Once I had met all of the requirements, the Dr.'s office submitted it to insurance and I was approved in a week! Everything came fast and furious at that point. That happened about 3 weeks ago and I'll be having surgery 2 weeks from today! Hang in there and use these 6 months to truly prepare yourself for the surgery and life afterwards. I spent a lot of time looking into the surgery, pre/post op stuff, and most importantly talking with pre and post op people. That has been the most beneficial thing for me. I was so upset 6 months ago to have to wait, but looking back, it has been a blessing. You can make it these 6 months!!! Good luck!

I am on day 10 of my pre-op liquid diet. Day 3 was the absolute worst for me. I felt terrible. I had a headache, felt weak, cranky, and just wanted to sleep. I woke up on day 4 and felt SO much better! It will get better and you CAN do this! Hang in there!