I'm right there with ya. I was sleeved on may 23 after my lap band was taken out. Starting weight was 211 and I'm down to 189. It seems like it's going so slow! Been stuck at the same weight for 4 days now. I know how you feel when you get discouraged comparing yourself to others. I've just learned to enjoy the fact that the scale is going down rather than up, no matter the pace!