Lindalue, I was visiting a church and they were acknowledging two women with birthdays: one was 86 and one was 92. They were both doing well and one was still living on her own. I realized then that I had more life ahead of me than behind, and that I could have any kind of life I chose to have. 67 is young, and it is never too late to live your best life. Some people are not ready for change, so you are doing the right thing looking outside for support. I let my sister discourage me for years (even though she did the surgery 20 years ago). It was only when I made up my mind to dismiss everyone else's opinion about something that is clearly a personal (individual) decision did everything change. When the negativity comes, speak life. It works!