Healthy_life2

Gowalking mountaingirl. She is one of the many family members I did not tell about my WLS. She seen me at a family event last August. I was 40lbs down. Her first comment when she saw me was..... "what a transformation" She has never had weight issues. I now weigh less than my step daughter. Family has seen a few photos. I'm understanding of peoples responses when they have not seen the gradual change. Just don't want my weight to be a topic while she is here to visit.

But of course it will be since she might not even recognize you. If you don't want it to be a topic of discussion during the visit you might want to consider discussing it with her in advance.

She was supportive until now. The issue seems to be I weigh less than her now. Again she is a healthy weight. It's the initial shock that gets me. Moving on with her stay. I'm over it