Hi Tracy,
I'm not banded yet, but I know what you mean about the food police.
I "met" you on the lapband threads on LCF recently. I use a different name there, "Andagain." I have low carbed off and on for 7 years, on my best efforts during one year I lost 50 lbs. found it all again and a some that someone else lost. Then lost 60 lbs. with the help of prescribed diet pills and of course I've found all that too, with a few of their friends. But when I first started low carbing people were absolutely hateful about it. Now the same ones who used to carry on about how I was going to kill my kidneys are now low carbing and you'd think they invented it.
So the moral of the story is, once they ALL get banded they'll be so self centered they won't even remember you are losing weight too. :cry