Redsmom,
I plan on handling my family (who hasn't seen me for 80 lbs now) by being the hostess and social director, giving them tips on nutrition and exercise (if they ask) and generally allowing them to oooh and aaaah over me..... they will inevitably notice your not eating much but jeez, ya just lost some weight, ya'd think they'd know that's how ya did it by cutting down... if ya want 'em to know ya had help with the band tell 'em if not...don't it's your gig...play it like ya want to!
ya can always hang out and play with the kids...
I miss Rita!!!
Happy Thanksgiving,
Safe Journey
Chrissi