Hi i am very quite, and don't ask for much nor do I talk much, and Believe it or not i am a nurse, 60 yrs old, had my Surg Jan, 2008,it now April of 09, have only lost about 50 lbs, feel very depressed, feel like a failure, and just don't eat all I need to or get all the fluids I should and I know thats my problem, I decided Friday I would approach this in a whole new different way, maybe with your all help if u don't mind helping encourage this mamaw, I'll really make it this time. the will is there I just can't seem to do all I have to do getting 8oo cal. in a day is good for me, they want 1200. that sounds almost impossible, but will give it the best I have and hope you will go on this bumpy ride with me, maybe someone else that has experiened this wouldn't mind,thanks In Christian Love and Support, Thor (Becky)