Find a new PCP again... i was with my old PCP for almost 20 years.. she was AGAINST surgery even though i have been overweight my ENTIRE life.. its not up to them..its your body, your choice, they jsut need to make sure you are healthy enough to have the surgery..everyone can have opinions on surgery, but it is available, and if you qualify and WANT to change then who are they to stop you. I finally found a new dr who is all for surgery. It a great feeling. Just keep looking. your perect PCP is out there! good Luck!