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James Marusek

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  1. James Marusek

    Water

    It is common for your taste buds to change after surgery. Be willing to experiment. After surgery, my taste buds changed dramatically. Even water changed. In the hospital it tasted excessively chlorinated and I could not drink it. So I experimented. Sugar free popsicles became my best friend. Some individuals find hot or cold can help with fluids. For me, I found that I could tolerate flavored water. So I began using Crystal Light. I also found a new drink Bai which I liked cold. In the winter, I found that I tolerate hot drinks such as piping hot cocoa. But you have to use the "No Sugar Added" variety. Also fine English teas were very good. The fluid requirement is met by a combination. It is not only the water that you drink each day. But also the water you drink when you take your vitamins and medicine. It is the milk you drink. It is the fluids content of the protein shakes. It is the water component of the soups you take. It is met by flavored water such as Crystal Light. It is met by sugar free popsicles. It is met by tea and decaf coffee. It is a combination of all the fluids that you consume during the day.
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    My journey

    Sounds like you are getting close. Good luck on your surgery. I will pray for you. Here are a few steps that you might do if you haven't already done them in preparation. 1. Take a good before photograph of yourself, so that you have something to compare to after surgery. Many times we are blind to our obesity. We do not see ourselves. Therefore when the weight begins to drop off rather dramatically, we question if this is really happening. Photographs are a good visualization of our success. Many people carry a before and after photo with them, just to remind themselves of their success. 2. Walk 30 minutes each day, every day until surgery (or equivalent exercise). Walking helps the recovery process go smoothly and minimized the pain levels from surgery. 3. Wean yourself from caffeine and carbonated beverages now. After I gave up my 6 diet coke a day habit, I suffered from a week of severe withdrawal syndrome consisting of severe headaches and body aches. I was miserable. You don't want to combine the effects of caffeine withdrawal with the effects of surgery.
  3. James Marusek

    Gastric Bypass

    Good luck on your surgery. Here are a few recommendations. 1. Take a good before photograph of yourself, so that you have something to compare to after surgery. Many times we are blind to our obesity. We do not see ourselves. Therefore when the weight begins to drop off rather dramatically, we question if this is really happening. Photographs are a good visualization of our success. Many people carry a before and after photo with them, just to remind themselves of their success. 2. Walk 30 minutes each day, every day until surgery (or equivalent exercise). Walking helps the recovery process go smoothly and minimized the pain levels from surgery. 3. Wean yourself from caffeine and carbonated beverages now. After I gave up my 6 diet coke a day habit, I suffered from a week of severe withdrawal syndrome consisting of severe headaches and body aches. I was miserable. You don't want to combine the effects of caffeine withdrawal with the effects of surgery.
  4. Generally, the sleeve will only make severe acid reflux (GERD) worse. That is why you doctor is recommending gastric bypass. Some individuals have the sleeve but after awhile have to have a second surgery to gastric bypass because of severe acid reflux. I had severe acid reflux prior to surgery. My doctor recommended gastric bypass. I am 4 years post-op and have not been bothered by severe acid reflux since my operation.
  5. The three most important elements after RNY gastric bypass surgery are to meet your daily protein, fluid and vitamin requirements. Food is secondary because your body is converting your stored fat into the energy that drives your body. Thus you lose weight. Weight loss is achieved after surgery through meal volume control. You begin at 2 ounces (1/4 cup) per meal and gradually over the next year and a half increase the volume to 1 cup per meal. With this minuscule amount of food, it is next to impossible to meet your protein daily requirements by food alone, so therefore you need to rely on supplements such as protein shakes.
  6. James Marusek

    Not Hungry, Regular Food Phase

    After surgery, I found that my taste buds changed. Many foods that I use to enjoy became flavorless. I found that softer foods such as chili and soups went down much easier than harder foods such as meat. It also added a lot of flavor to my meals and eating became somewhat enjoyable. I have included some recipes at the end of the following article. http://www.breadandbutterscience.com/Surgery.pdf
  7. Since surgery is only a few days away, I would recommend three things. 1. Take a good before photograph of yourself, so that you have something to compare to after surgery. Many times we are blind to our obesity. We do not see ourselves. Therefore when the weight begins to drop off rather dramatically, we question if this is really happening. Photographs are a good visualization of our success. Many people carry a before and after photo with them, just to remind themselves of their success. 2. Walk 30 minutes each day, every day until surgery (or equivalent exercise). Walking helps the recovery process go smoothly and minimized the pain levels from surgery. 3. Wean yourself from caffeine and carbonated beverages now. After I gave up my 6 diet coke a day habit, I suffered from a week of severe withdrawal syndrome consisting of severe headaches and body aches. I was miserable. You don't want to combine the effects of caffeine withdrawal with the effects of surgery.
  8. James Marusek

    Tomorrow everything changes

    Good luck on your surgery and remember to Walk, Walk, Walk.
  9. Since you objective is to not lose any more weight, your goals in having RNY gastric bypass is quite different than most of us. In my case I began at 2 ounces (1/4 cup) per meal and gradually over the next year and a half increase the volume to 1 cup per meal. My surgeon provided very specific directions (a half day class). After surgery your stomach is in a major heal mode. That will take several weeks. So pace yourself. The transition to solids can be difficult, especially meats. The three most important elements after RNY gastric bypass surgery are to meet your daily protein, fluid and vitamin requirements. Food is less important.
  10. James Marusek

    Back pain post op

    You might refer to your discharge instructions. The only element that might pertain was When to contact you physician - New onset of upper back or left shoulder pain.
  11. Here are some links that may be of some help: https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/249135-sharp-pains-in-left-side/ https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/193032-pain-under-my-ribs-on-left-side/ https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/202303-pain-on-my-left-side/
  12. James Marusek

    Anaemia in men post gastric bypass

    After gastric bypass surgery, I had blood work done once per year to assess any deficiencies that might occur. It is a little like fine tuning a car. After my first annual review it was determined I was iron deficient. As a result I have been taking an additional iron supplement once per day. I am 4 years post op and I would not describe myself as anemic because I have plenty of stamina (ability to perform physical labor). I just have an iron absorption deficiency. A couple more points - it is important to space apart your iron and calcium supplements by at least 2 hours. Because that will affect absorption. According to my nutritionist, if you are taking iron supplements, it should be ferrous sulfate for the best absorption.
  13. James Marusek

    Advise Needed

    Since you are at the beginning of this process, I would recommend three things. 1. Take a good before photograph of yourself, so that you have something to compare to after surgery. Many times we are blind to our obesity. We do not see ourselves. Therefore when the weight begins to drop off rather dramatically, we question if this is really happening. Photographs are a good visualization of our success. Many people carry a before and after photo with them, just to remind themselves of their success. 2. Walk 30 minutes each day, every day until surgery (or equivalent exercise). Walking helps the recovery process go smoothly and minimized the pain levels from surgery. 3. Wean yourself from caffeine and carbonated beverages now. After I gave up my 6 diet coke a day habit, I suffered from a week of severe withdrawal syndrome consisting of severe headaches and body aches. I was miserable. You don't want to combine the effects of caffeine withdrawal with the effects of surgery.
  14. James Marusek

    6 months in the hospital

    Debedeb appears to be Debedeb Wilson. [The photo posted for her on bariatricpal matches that used on the gofundme account] Three months ago she set up a gofundme account for Tracy Saville. The following is an excerpt from that fundraiser account: It is so rare that we find someone who is willing to give to others openly and lovingly, someone who acts as an angel among us. However, Tracy Saville is a prime example of just that type of person. A man who gave his entire life to others has fallen and now this angel needs our help. Three months ago Tracy went in for a sugery that should have changed his life for the better. Instead, it turned out to be nightmare that has him fighting for his life. This man has dedicated his life to foster kids, assisting children living in poverty, and he has continuously participated in a big brothers program. Tracy has spent his entire life giving back to others, and now he is in a position where he needs that same generosity and support. When the complications happened it took weeks before he was finally able to get an answer about what was going on; by that time, it was nearly too late. Miraculously, he pulled through a prolonged stay in the hospital and multiple procedures. As he woke to see family around, tears rolled down his cheeks, though even then he managed to crack smile in front of his loved ones as he recieved the bad news and struggles he would face. It was then that he discovered that he had a massive infection that had been neglected for far too long. This would only be the beginning of months spent in the hospital. After another set of failed treatments, he was flown to Jacksonville, Florida to the Mayo Clinic. Finally, he had some great doctors working relentlessly trying to save organs and his life. We are blessed to have him here, but now he is 6 hours away from home. Yesterday, he went in for another surgery as doctors scrambled to clean out the infection and repair many leaks from several places including his stomach and esophagus . More bad news came to him and his family, and we found he would lose half of one of his lungs. The doctors and staff don't understand how he made it through this series of complications and such dangerous conditions, but we of faith know that answer don't we?
  15. I did not know what side effects gabapentin might have, so I looked it up. http://www.rxlist.com/neurontin-side-effects-drug-center.htm Generally speaking, the drug has a lot of bad side effects but weight gain is generally not one of them. In a controlled trial only 2% of patients identified weight gain as a problem. As far as type of surgery, I would probably recommend either gastric bypass, sleeve or duodenal switch. If you have severe acid reflux, I would recommend against the sleeve because the sleeve will only make that condition worse. Although some have success with lap band, many have experienced problems with that procedure. One of the individuals in our bariatric surgery support group, had a lap band, but after several years that band started to erode and eat through his stomach, it became life threatening, so he had it removed and replaced with gastric bypass. For that reason and others, many doctors are no longer performing that type of surgery today.
  16. James Marusek

    Protein intake question

    Many experience problems drinking protein shakes. I hated them. But in the beginning I drank them, three 16-ounce protein shakes a day, in order to meet my protein requirements. You do not have to like protein shakes only tolerate them. There are many varieties of protein shakes available today. Experiment until you can find one you can tolerate. There are many different types of formulations on protein shakes. I would recommend that you keep experimenting until you find one that you can tolerate. You don't have to like it, just tolerate it. I used Muscle Milk Light (Vanilla Creme) powder blended with water and a half a banana. That worked for me. But on the opposite end of the spectrum, you might try premixed Isopure. If you tried all the various varieties and still are unsuccessfully, then there is the fallback of fortified milk. 32 ounces of 1% milk fortified by adding 1 cup of dried milk provides 56 grams of protein. It also takes a dent out of meeting the fluid requirements. Mix up a pitcher and drink a little throughout the day. Without sufficient protein, your body will scavenge protein from other areas of your body, such as your muscles. Protein is extremely important after surgery as its job in the body is to build and maintain tissues including your body's major organs and skeletal muscles. Protein deficiency, when continued over a long period of time can cause a disease known as protein caloric malnutrition. Common symptoms are poor healing, fatigue, hair loss and muscle wasting. Immediate post op, protein promotes healing of the staple line and incisions. Right after gastric bypass surgery, the volume of food you consume is minuscule (2 ounces) per meal. But as you get further along, the meal volume increases. Therefore you have a very important option available to you. If you focus on consuming high protein mealst, you can begin to reduce your reliance on protein shakes. I went from 3 a day, down to 2, down to 1 and eventually none when I reached 1 cup per meal at a year and a half post-op. There are at least two forms of protein supplements: protein shakes and protein bars. Coordinate with you nutritionist to determine when you have a green light to transition to protein bars. It wasn't until the 3rd or 4th month that my nutritionist recommended them. Your stomach may still need a little extra time. A protein bar is probably too dense at the two month mark. I used Quest protein bars. These bars were good in that they had high protein, minimal sugar and also contained fiber. Fiber comes in handy when you are dealing with constipation issues. Quest bars came in a lot of different flavors. Protein bars are good when you are on the go and can't drag along a blender in order to mix a protein shake. A Quest protein bar contains 220 calories and provides 21 grams of protein. A Muscle Milk Light protein [2 scoops of powder in a 16 ounce glass] contains 210 calories and provides 25 grams of protein. So they are comparable.
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    Protein shake recommendations

    I hated protein shakes. What worked the best for me was Muscle Milk Light (Vanilla Creme) powder blended with water and a half a banana blended in. Adding the banana gave it some taste.
  18. James Marusek

    My RNY Experience

    Congratulations and good luck on your progress post-op.
  19. Good luck on your progress post-op.
  20. James Marusek

    I'm getting scared and upset

    Dealing with health insurance companies can be very challenging. Just persevere. I would recommend three things. 1. Take a good before photograph of yourself, so that you have something to compare to after surgery. Many times we are blind to our obesity. We do not see ourselves. Therefore when the weight begins to drop off rather dramatically, we question if this is really happening. Photographs are a good visualization of our success. Many people carry a before and after photo with them, just to remind themselves of their success. 2. Walk 30 minutes each day, every day until surgery (or equivalent exercise). Walking helps the recovery process go smoothly and minimized the pain levels from surgery. 3. Wean yourself from caffeine and carbonated beverages now. After I gave up my 6 diet coke a day habit, I suffered from a week of severe withdrawal syndrome consisting of severe headaches and body aches. I was miserable. You don't want to combine the effects of caffeine withdrawal with the effects of surgery.
  21. James Marusek

    Meal planning

    Prior to surgery, I kept a food journal. It was a real eye opener. I could see where my daily diet was getting me in trouble and what to avoid. Before surgery, I had constant hunger. When I was eating a meal, my mind was thinking what I would have for my next meal. It was incessant. Now the interesting thing that occurred after my RNY surgery was that I completely lost my hunger. It was not difficult to plan my minuscule meals because I wasn't really hungry. This condition does not last forever but for about a year and then the hunger returns. It just isn't as strong as before. The three most important elements after RNY gastric bypass surgery are to meet your daily protein, fluid and vitamin requirements. Food is secondary because your body is converting your stored fat into the energy that drives your body. Thus you lose weight. Weight loss is achieved after surgery through meal volume control. You begin at 2 ounces (1/4 cup) per meal and gradually over the next year and a half increase the volume to 1 cup per meal. With this minuscule amount of food, it is next to impossible to meet your protein daily requirements by food alone, so therefore you need to rely on supplements such as protein shakes. So after surgery, it is extremely important to follow the surgeon's guidelines on meal volume and acceptable foods. This changes the further you are post-op. But meal planning is less important because you meal volume will be very small. Your taste buds may change after surgery. Protein shakes may be not taste good after surgery. So be willing to experiment until you find one that works for you. You do not have to like the protein shake you select but you must be able to tolerate it. There are many different formulations available. So in answer to your question on meal planning post surgery, the focus should rather be selection of a protein shake that will work for you.
  22. Constipation can be a problem after surgery. Make sure you are drinking the required amount of fluids because this can make you constipated. Several months after surgery I became so constipated I had to resort to using glycerin suppositories. But this was the extreme when you are really bound up. I discovered eating an apple a day just before bedtime corrected the problem. Then generally the next morning produced a bowel movement. But you must eat the skin of the apple along with the pulp. Other remedies suggested by those on this board include: Smooth Move Herbal Tea Prune Juice (warmed) Prunes (4 in the morning and 4 at night) Magnesium citrate Insoluble fibers (Garden of Life Raw Fiber or Renew Life Triple Fiber). Haribo Sugar Free Gummy Bears Aerobic Magnesium 07 Ground Flax Seeds (but don’t try to grind it yourself). Use 2 tablespoons per glass of water every night before going to bed. Bowel Clear (herbal blend)
  23. James Marusek

    Nurse After WSL?

    After surgery, I found that my stamina [the ability to perform physical labor] increased dramatically. I am almost 70 and can work like I was 30. So you will be fine after the first couple months.
  24. James Marusek

    Anyone NOT require panniculectmy?

    According to the internet: A panniculectomy is when a pannus is surgically removed. A pannus is excess skin and adipose tissue, sometimes referred to as an apron that hangs down over ones genitals and/or thighs. This excess tissue can make it difficult to maintain good hygiene in the genital area. I did not have this done. It may also depend on whether you are male or female or how much overweight you started with. You might want to repost this under the forum: Plastic Surgery.
  25. James Marusek

    Looking for better calcium citrate option

    In the morning I put my Citricals in a small finger bowl. Then I take a couple every couple hours. When I am up and about I put them in a zip lock bag and take them with me. For me this is not difficult. Sometimes I take two at once. But right after surgery, I lost my ability to swallow large pills and I had to crush them. It was like eating chalk. The only way I could down these was by mixing them with crystal light and drinking them down. Because they formed a paste at the bottom of the glass. I had to remix these and chug them down several times. Luckily my inability to swallow lasted only a couple months and then I was back to normal.

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