So I need some advice I have been married for 4 years. We have had some difficult times in the past ( i had an affair with my ex) but have worked through them. I was sleeved on 4/15/14 and have gone from 323 to 295 in that time. My husband has been totally supportive during the whole process. I attempted to initiate sex tonight, but he totally shut me down. He said he is not comfortable with the changes he sees yet and needs time to get used to them. Any one else had this experience after surgery.
