Ginger Snaps

Oh sweetie...I've been working on that for nearly a year. I see a therapist because I could not see anything but the fat girl. All I can tell you is that it's taking a long time for me. Maybe because I had to lose so much weight. Whatever the reason, I am at the point where I can see the smaller me but I still feel inside, like I'm passing....like people of color who were very light used to do once upon a time. I still think of myself as the fat girl who's managing to 'pass' for a thin girl. So basically, all I can say is that I wouldn't expect you will see what others see for quite a while.

I know what you mean, cause I do the same thing. When I go cloths shopping I still think I need to go into the plus sizes to shop, and I don't, but I gravitate towards that section out of habit?

LOL this is so funny I do the same and I wear a size large shirt now I guess my head has not caught up to my body LOL.