<p>I have been banded for eight days now. I can't hardly wait until I fill normal. I have been having pain still and I thought that it would be over by now. Although when I look at the scales it makes the pain bearable. </p> <p>I am real lucky because my family give me lots of support. I did have a really good friend who told me basically if you eat less and exercise you don't need the surgery s you can save the money. she has never had a weight problem and just didn't understand. I hope your family members come around. Good Luck</p>