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Did I just write this post? I'm going through the same things. I almost see myself sabotaging. My cravings are back and I've lost some motivation. I still, thank heavens, can't eat like I used to (nowhere near)!! I'm not sure abou the pyschological block? Hmmm. It definitely has something to do with the HEAD! Shawn

If you are eating 2 pieces of pizza as a snack, then consider a fill. I don't have much room to talk, when you saying self-sabatoge....I'm there. However, it's my constant grazing is my downfall. I HATE this time of year, when it comes to the constant food-in-my-face. I'm no so sure, if my "head" will ever be on straight.. Take care. Shawn

I am kind of where you are...My original goal weight was 150. I weight 140 when I graduated high school, then I gave myself an extra 10 pounds. OK. Then, I decided well...maybe 160. Now, I am at 173 and thinking that I could maybe do another 10 pounds if I really wanted to buckle down. However, if I got to 150, I might look anorexic. Either it is in my head or my ideal weight has changed. I am not sure. My skin is a little bit loose as it is and I don't want to make it worse. Soooo. I am sort of wondering like you are...Is it our perception? Shawn

Cindy, I was pretty swollen after surgery also. Just a few bits of yogurt/jello would do me. The swelling, each week, got a bit better. I think my stomach is sensitive anyway. That is why, my fills have been on the small size and VERY infrequent; Keep on drinking and eating what you comfortable and capable of...it will get better. Shawn

Paige, I don't believe anyone goes into WLS expecting their procedure to fail. The point, that Alex is making (I believe)...is that it IS possible for the band to be reversed due to complications. Before any WLS, a person must know both the positive and negative aspects of their particular surgery. I know that I wanted to know everything that I could about bypass and the band (my 2 considerations). Shawn

Today is Tuesday and it's YOUR day! I hope everything went well and you are up and about in no time. You did incredible on your 13 days and I have no doubt that you'll do incredible with the band. Take care, Shawn

You'll feel much better after a small unfill! Good luck, Shawn

It sounds like you're too tight and may need a slight unfill. Being too tight, can often cause reflux. Try it and see if it helps! Take care, Shawn

Wheetsin is right! I have some looser skin the the arm flap, legs, and a bit o'tummy. Nothing that I would have surgery for...it's just skin. If I had a severe droop, where it interfered with my life than I'd consider surgery. Everyone is sooo different. Shawn

First off, let me say how great you are doing! What you've done is no small feat. You are also doing terrific on your exercise. I am assuming that you have a 10cc band. It doesn't sound like anything is wrong. It sounds like you are not restricted. This is very common. Sometimes it takes people a long while to find restriction (everyone is differnent). The band can also be very fickle (restricted in the AM, loose in the PM). Keep adding saline to your band, you WILL eventually find restriction. Then an 10 oz sirloin will be unattainable (guaranteed). Take care. Shawn

My guess is that it's made up for gastric bypass patients. My card says the same thing. They do mostly bypass patients. Anyway, for the most part you will be able to eat more than 1/4 cup. It isn't always consistent and depends upon what you eat as well. I can eat about 2 cups right now, but I am not as restricted as I used to be. Shawn

It sounds VERY early for eating regular food. The band is healing and scarring in place. Any torque at this point can lead to slippage. I would have him call his surgeon's office and get more instruction. Shawn

This is my opinion. Call your surgeon and ask for a fill. If he still refuses, then find another surgeon. You aren't restricted and the band ONLY works with proper restriction. Don't beat yourself up too badly!!! You are in Alabama? Any good fill doctors in Al? Go to the "fill" or "US" thread and ask. You deserve a fill. A good fill doctor/surgeon works with their patients (within reason). Shawn

You've gotten some really good responses, from many people that were once in your daughter's shoes! My only tidbit, is to discuss options when your daughter is calm and in a good mood. That is the best way to have a conversation with them. See what she wants, would she like to join a gym? Or does she want you to get rid of the junk? Ask what bothers her. Is she teased? At one point, when my son was 12 years old, he wanted to kill himself. We tried to give him as much love as we could and then we asked him if he wanted to go see a counselor to help him. He agreed. He was having social problems. The 12-14 years age is very difficult plus they can go heavy on the emotions. It's gradually worked itself out, due to skills and maturity. Take care. Shawn

Find another fill doctor. Tell us what city and state you live in and maybe someone can recommend a doctor. It sounds like your group might be "clueless" when it comes to fills. The price seems awfully high as well. Take care, Shawn

Sorry, the 2nd try isn't going well...I'd just move to another bedroom and save the drama. If you choose to stay in the master, then he is going to put up a stink. Take care, Shawn

This time of year has been harder than last. I've been at a stand still weight wise, but did manage to gain my first (2) pounds this season. This summer I've reintroduced ice cream and junk in my diet. It hasn't really done much to the scale until last week! Like Dianne, I haven't been eating anywhere near what I've used to (not even close). However, my fear is to have the pounds sneak up on me and bamm! I am where I used to be. I probably could use a fill, especially my afternoons and evening I feel quite "open." However, I have reflux at night and don't wish to make that worse. Catch 22. I hope everyone is doing well! Shawn

As far as the insurance and letter from psychologist ask your surgeons office. They will know what is required. Sounds like you are rolling along. This will happen soon! Take care. Shawn

Jumping through those hoops isn't fun! It's always frutstrating to ask for something (records) and only get a partial and then having to reask/wait again. Grrrr...they will eventually figure it out. Hopefully you can get into the pulmonology dr. soon and be on your way! Good luck, Shawn

Yippee! What a feeling it is to shop at normal stores. Congrats! Shawn

Good responses bandsters! I agree. It has helped me stop from gorging on real foods (french fries, bread, rice, meats, etc). I never have seconds. It won't stop the junky stuff for the most part. However, I am eating way less and have lost weight. The most weight that I have ever lost was 20 pounds, and that lasted a minute. Shawn

Sorry, Carlene....Tis the seaason. It seems like everyone is either fighting off a cold, beginning a cold, or staying away from a cold (family member). Love the pineapple thing. Hope you feel better soon! Shawn

My daughter had a sore throat and then I started with a runny nose/sneezing, etc. We immediately took Zicam (the ones that melt in your mouth) and it has seriously diminished the symptoms in me. After 2 days, I don't have these symptoms. My daughter still has a slight sore throat. I am very much a skeptic about most things. However, a few years back when the Zicam's came out, we were going snow skiing. Of course, we caught colds. I decided to purchase this over-the-counter product to save the trip from misery...Anyway, it didn't/doesn't cure the cold but for us has decreased the severity. (5 days instead of 10) First sign of a cold I take this. No guarantees that it will work for you, but it's worth a try. You have to take it like every 3 hours on first onset of symtoms. Shawn

My surgeon does it "blind" and has never needed to do it more than once. He is always on target. If I had someone poking me, more than once, then I would encourage a fluro. Shawn

I also hear the "click/pop" sound on occasion. It's great that your surgeon listens to you. I have often had question as to whether I should get another fill. I was losing but more so on my own, the band sometime wasn't that restricted. My surgeon also deferred to me and let me make the decision. Often, it was as you did, a little fill at a time. Shawn