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hey, mammanan - I live in Buffalo too! I was banded in February. I also had the exact problem you're asking about. My BMI dropped below the minimum during my 6 month diet. Mainly my doctor went to bat for me and let the insurance company know that he required me to loose 10% of the total I had to loose (10 lbs in my case, but i lost 15) Also, when they got the records from my dietition it showed that my BMI was higher when I started with her. You shouldn't have a problem as long as records are kept! BTW - where are you having your surgery?

My doctor ALWAYS does my fills under fluoro. He can see what he's doing that way and it's only ever taken one poke. I'm constantly amazed that I can't even feel it, and that's with no numbing medication. The last time I was there he gave me three fills in a row because he could see that the contrast I drank each time was going through the band with no restriction. I think the fluoro is really handy, but my doctors office is in the same building as the hospital, so it isn't any inconvience at all.

I too gained about 5 lbs right after surgery - fortunately, my surgeon warned me it would happen - he said it's all the fluids they pumped into me while I was at the hospital....

I fell below my what my ins. required during my 6 mos. supervised diet, but my Doctor,Nutritionist, and surgeon sent the insurance all the information showing where I started, and that they required me to loose weight, and they ok'd me.

Hi everyone - just thought I'd update everyone - I wrote awhile back that my DH was so against my having surgery, I wasn't sure I was going to go through with it because I wasn't sure our marriage would survive it. Well, I did get my band on the 13th. He's been MORE than supportive, and has even apologized (with a diamond eternity ring) for being so hard on me in the first place. He says he'll never agree with my decision to have the surgery, or that I even needed it in the first place, but since I did go through with it, he'll be here for me. He was soooo sweet when I got home and did everything for me - wouldn't let me lift a finger until I finally told him I needed to do for myself if I was ever going to get better. I'm not 100% sure I did the right thing, I guess time will tell. Right now I'm just starting to get hungry, but on Wednesday, I can up my food intake to 1 cup from 1/2 and start on mushies, so hopefully that will help! Otherwise, I've felt great - never had any pain at all except for the gas - and walking really helps with that! Good luck everyone and hang in there even if you feel like you're not getting support from everyone!

Ok, Erin, I'll relieve you of the "burden" of being the oldest! I'm 51, well almost 52, I guess! (march) I'm married (almost 32 years) and have 3 grown children and 4 grandchildren. My oldest daughter seems to only be able to have twins, and that's scared the other two out of trying. Thankfully, she's not going to tempt the fates and try for a third set! I live in Minnesota too, and my surgery will be Feb. 13th. I've always thought of myself as fat, but I've gotten a few old photo's of myself in my early teens lately that really look very good! It really makes me mad to think that I was told I had a weight problem when I looked like that! I never even got to enjoy being "normal!" I would love to get down to 150, but I'd be really happy at 180. I'm 242 right now, and started at 264 at my first nutr. appt. I think my highest was something like 272.

I'll be staying overnight too. Yea! :tongue2: I'm actually looking forward to the down time to concentrate on me! My surgery is next Wed. I can't believe it's coming so quickly! Seems like I just started this journey, however when I think about what we needed to do to get here, it seems to have taken my whole life! I guess in a way it did! :drool: Here's to a quick and pain-free recovery for everyone!

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Hi - My date is the 13th too! I'm starting to amass my liquids, etc.for after surgery, and that's making me realize it's already next week! I"m getting very nervious! :biggrin: Good luck and best wishes to all!

Hey, guys! Sorry, I'm not a dude, but I need to ask guys a question.... I'm getting banded on 2/13/08, and am really excited about it. I have a 23 year old son that needs to do something, and I don't want to push him, but he's 6'7" and about 450-500 lbs. Granted he's BIG, but he's obviously too big for his size at any rate. He has fatty liver disease, sleep apnea and issues with his lower back and knees. In fact, he may need back surgery if current meds don't do the trick. I have talked to him (so have doctors) about weight loss surgery, but he thinks he can do this himself, even though he doesn't seem to be interested right now. He said he totally understands why I want to do it, but he's only 23, and he's never really tried to diet. So, my question to you is: What was your ah, ha moment that you realized you couldn't do this on your own, and should I keep pushing, or just let nature take it's course? Maybe when he sees that I"m having success he'll be more open to it? Thanks guys! And, by the way - my surgeon told me the ratio of guys to women that have this surgery is something like 1:5..... maybe it's an ego thing?

Photo - Thanks for the insight - you're absolutly right about him being open and honest about his feelings. I wouldn't want him to keep them inside, although, last night I told him if he couldn't say something nice to not say anything at all. Honestly, I don't think I can take anymore of his negativity! I need to stay focused on the positive and he seems to think that means I'm not taking to heart the negative things that can happen. Anyway, we've been hashing this over almost every night,and he does seem to be coming around a little. I can see now that he's most concerned about the changes that we'll make immediately afterwards. Like cooking meals and him eating alone. I told him that should only be until everytings healed up... He's still not behind me having the surgery, but he says he knows I'm determined to have it and he'll support me afterwards. Guess we'll see! I got a letter yesterday from the surgins office that said; "Congratulations, your weight loss surgery has been scheduled." he flipped! - "Why would anyone congratulate you on having surgery???? Can you tell he has quite a strong personality?:hurray: But I still love him!:biggrin:

Leather - what happened to make your wife be ok with it now? I honestly don't know what it will take to make my DH understand. Yesterday he dug up some information on the internet about the dangers of weight loss surgery. Both RNY and Lab Band. According to the article, the morbidity rate is 1 in 300. I know it's rediculous, and I told him I could probably find another site that would quote something else. He's focusing on the negative, I know, but it's making me focus on the negative too, and I don't need that right now!