Hi Jasmine,
Thanks for bringing this up - it's given people the opportunity to be honest, without being shot down by someone (no one in particular) with a holier than thou attitude who gives you a lecture about the band only being a tool, what did you expect, should've done your homework etc. I've found it hard to understand how people ignore the underlying psychological reasons for needing surgery like this, and the importance of dealing with it ( not everyone of course).
I don't overeat because I'm hungry but I don't know why I do, but I have to find out because I've just had my band removed (that's another story) and I couldn't cope with putting back the relatively small amount I have lost. I do feel that the medical professionals involved in this king of surgery don't give these issues the attention they need. It really is fairly new surgery and the long term success, failures and side effects are unknown.Fortunately I've recently started a job where you get a certain amount of counselling sessions for free.
Sorry I don't have any answers for you, but if I come across anything helpful I'll let you know.
Take care, Rachel.