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I've had an unfill (and I've also had a slip and my band replaced, but that's a different story). Here's my thoughts. For the first week after a total unfill you'll feel crazy hungry. This is when to be THE MOST diligent. Eat lots of Protein (which is filling) and track what you eat and be on top of it. For me, after about 10 days, that *intense* hunger calmed a bit and while I could eat more, I wasn't so crazy about food every minute. Just my thoughts on the matter. Good luck!

Hi MaineMom - First of all, welcome to LBT. We're all in this together and here to be supportive. While I have only had the band, my first band was seven years ago and I can tell you that my pouch definitely relaxed over time. When I was exploring which surgery to have, my doctor told me that with RNY, over time not only does the stomach relax, it also starts to rebuild the lost cilia needed for the malabsorption. He said that in the later years of RNY, it becomes very difficult to lose. I'm saying this by way of saying....it's not your fault. You had a tool that worked great and then it didn't. That's one of the little tricks about any weight loss surgery. It's great for a while, but then, like anything, you have to stay committed to it. Ultimately my band slipped and I've just had a new one placed. It's given me a kick in the butt and I'm being SO careful right now in how I eat. Getting the new band is making me relearn all the lessons. I don't take it for granted anymore (I was really bad about that). So if you are considering a new weight loss surgery, I guess I come closest to understanding what you are saying. It's a big step. HUGE. The second surgery was harder for me than the first. I'm not as young as I was seven years ago. *smile* But it's an interesting thing to consider. Just like you did before your first surgery, research everything before you decide Wishing you a lot of luck on your journey.

Update: Just found out that Dr Alami is leaving the Bay Area to go back to his family home in Lebanon. I'm *very* sad as he was a true asset to bariatric surgery. I'm getting follow up from Dr Li now, who is the Director of Bariatrics at Kaiser. He's not a very warm, friendly guy, but has a great resume. And the rest of the staff at Kaiser in South San Francisco are top notch.

Ok, let's take a huge step back and look at how far you've come this year. 73 lbs? SEVENTY THREE POUNDS!!!?!?!? Amazing! Stunning! Spectacular!! You should be so incredibly proud of yourself and use this, your one year bandiversary, to remember all the lessons from day one. Go through the checklist and gently correct areas where you may have stepped off the path. Are you drinking with meals? Drinking too many calories? How are your carbs doing? Do you need to drop them a skosh to get the weight moving again? Or up Protein? Do you need to add a day of exercise? Or are you exercising too hard and need to ease back a day? With just a little fine tuning (for me, it was always fine tuning my carb count) you'll get it going again. But first: Take time to Celebrate this anniversary and your incredible success. You've earned every pound!! Congrats!

Hi guitar4life3000! I just had band revision surgery on March 7, so I am juuust barely past that painful stage you are in. Stay strong! For me, it was real bad for a week and then suddenly I shot out of bed with all the energy in the world. I've already lost 7 lbs. Crazy!! Ok, so I'm going to publicly declare what I want to do...so far I've only told my husband and even he was a little surprised. I want to run a 5k. Walking a 5k was my goal at my first band surgery when I weighed 300lb. When I weighed 250, I successfully finished a 5k. After this revision surgery, I'm upping the ante. And now I'm *publicly* declaring it here on LBT. SCARY! I am not a runner. At all. I really, really don't like to run. But hell, even if I do a wimpy half jog thing and turn in a terrible time, I don't care. I'm going to run a 5k. Whew! It feels so good to share. And on my girly, vanity thing.... I want to be able to sit with my legs crossed again (as someone else said, sit like a girl). And I want to be able to sit in a chair and not have the arms of the chair jabbing in my sides.

Every bariatric surgery has it's problems. RNY is great because people lose weight so fast (due to malabsorption) but I recall my original band dr saying (when we were discussing options) that with RNY you have to work hard to get your weight loss done in year one because by year 2 the stomach begins to relax a little and the body adapts and weight loss becomes much more difficult. Then in the next breath he told me how much discipline it takes to lose weight with a Lap Band because there isn't malabsorption issues. I am hearing about more and more RNY patients coming back for a lapband, it's actually not so unusual. And so, she's on the same crazy journey we all are on. I hope she finds some peace.

Hi Cocoabean! I must be hardheaded, because I keep going back to drinking liquid with food. Ridiculous, lol!!

I think that's only part of it. I think also that if you drink with meals, it sort of pushes all the food to the stoma and if it can't get through it gets stuck. And also, like you said, it can puff up certain things and make them so hard to get through. Ugh!

Hi Vicki - Thanks for chiming in to let me know about your experience. I'm always so glad to talk to other bandsters who had a slip and to hear about their revision surgery. I also had issues with my lungs and that drowning feeling prior to surgery. It's so great to be able to sleep with out waking up in a pool of my own saliva! I'm having that puffed up feeling you describe, but I'm only a week out of revision surgery, so I don't know if it's just healing stage or will go on for a while.

A couple weeks! Yikes! I agree, this pain is way, way worse than anything going on with my stomach! Soooo bad.

Nope, the shoulder pain is still really bad. It makes me cry sometimes it's so bad! And yeah, I'm on liquids for another week, then mushies. I can hardly wait to have mushies!! My first lapband was done in June 2005 so I've been a bandster for a long time. This new band feels like the beginning, though. I'm relearning all the things I need to do to be a better bandster this time.

Hi Adriana - How very, very scary!! I'm so glad that everything worked out well and your band is back in place. Isn't it crazy how hungry you get with no fill in the band? Soooo crazy. Once you get the fill you'll feel right again and that little bit of weight will come back off. I have to wait six weeks before I can get a fill. That's going to be a super long six weeks. Today has been a bit tough, a bit of a setback day, I guess. The pain has been pretty tough. Tomorrow is one week since my surgery. How time flies!! ***** Edited to say: I've already lost four pounds, hooray!!!

Ooooh, that drinking with meals thing...that's my super bad habit. I got really bad about it in the past few years. I was so good at first, but then just got lazy. Awesome reminder! Thank you!!!

Right on, Xavier!! I'm learning it all again, as if I am banded for the first time. Good stuff, you are doing great!!

Hi Xavier - Yes, my first band was sewn in. I believe it's called fundiplication. While having that done greatly reduces the risk of slip, it doesn't eliminate it. My case is a prime example. Word to the wise, don't take the fact that the band is sewn in for granted! Take care of your band and if you do vomit, be extra, extra careful.