I hear you---Same has happened to me. I have not even had my first fill. surgery 8/10/07, first fill 9/24/07 . We need to slow down. When people ask me how much weight I have lost I tell them ---The band has not been turned on yet. They stop. If anything is said ---I then add My body has to heal FIRST then we will work on every thing else. Do not let any one make you feel bad. It is my guess that around November I will be in full swing with the lap band program. Right now I am working on eating quality foods------not quanity . I eat no junk. no soda. no candy. My goal is to become AWARE of what I eat. I am not trying to tell you what to do---just food for thought. Janice