I honestly hadn't thought of a follow up because I have been embarrassed but I guess there is no reason to be. I appreciate the feedback even the blunt feedback there is no need to sugarcoat. I know the reality I guess I just need a swift kick in the you know what lol. What is meet up? I have never heard of it before? My fiancé broke his foot so walks with him are off the table for now but it is in my future plans when he is better.